Yesterday I was with my gf and she told me that she lied to me about something in a “By the way, do you remember the answer I gave, when you asked me about that topic? It was not like that”-manner. Just like it was no big deal lying to me straight into the face. I told her that I don’t like it that she lied to me, and she told me she did not want to ruin our beautiful moment at that time.
Because she noticed that I was not happy about that, she started saying how uncomfortable for her it was to tell me the truth about that topic and if I can imagine how difficult it is for her. (attempt to distract?)
We could not finish talking and I had the feeling that she did not pay any attention about how I felt bout that, so the problem was unsolved. Last thing I said was “I understand that it is not easy for you, thanks for bringing it up, but I don’t like that you were lying to me”.

The next day I was doing some kind of “freeze out “, just sent her short text messages. (We text each other pretty much during the day when we don’t meet). She noticed it and wrote “Yeah, ignore my messages, go ahead “ , “Just tell me if you don’t want to text me, I can’t stand that!” and stuff like that. I replied “Oh, someone is pretty accusing there”. “You give me that feeling”, she said. I wrote “ Let’s meet tomorrow in the afternoon”. We did not plan to meet tomorrow, because we are both busy.

Any suggestions about how I can reply to these kinds of messages? How could I address that problem when we meet?
Thanks in advance!

Leave her alone for A couple of days and make her text you first.

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Calling out your gf that way when she told the truth about a white lie so your "moment together" won't be ruined will only reinforce bad behavior. In the future, she'll stand her ground with her lies and package those as the truth all throughout instead of telling you the truth at a more opportune time.

Women tell white lies all the time BUT if you're good at reading the nonverbal cues, you'll realize that women are actually being honest with the noble automatic intention of not hurting anybody's feelings. It's just that, what women say is very different from what they're doing. You just have to be sharper at reading those nonverbal cues.

I can't give any inputs for damage control; just the insights in the first 2 paragraphs so you won't make the same mistake again in the future.

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Was it a white lie or about something that was actually important?

That's sort of key.

If it was just something stupid you're sorta hurting yourself by giving her shit for coming clean... Something serious - yeah that's a different story... but she still did come clean at least.

Well. It's hard to help you without knowing what she was lying about. You might be orverreacting or it might be something which is a big deal.

Either way. When she told you the truth you said “I understand that it is not easy for you, thanks for bringing it up, but I don’t like that you were lying to me”. This is fine and this is where it should end. She knows you are not happy so no need to get childish and ignoring and not texting back and shit.

So what did she lie about ?