Hello guys.

To begin with, I study in the UK and things are really tough (studying hard, working full time ,etc)
For the last 3 years I've been working really hard saved up about £12.000,00 and paid my postgraduate tuition fees as I started my uni course last October .

Moreover, I learnt about game quite recently (4~5 months ago).
Here we go I met this cute hb when I started doing my masters.

She is Chinese (extremely clever, ambitious , always getting the the highest marks in class ,ect). I've been gaming her since I met her. -( push-pull, negs, cube ) I literally applied every single pua technique I had previously learnt .

The problem: she has a boyfriend . I have always been ignoring this , but there are certain things which are really important, for instance she didn't have any pictures with her bf on her facebook profile which I find odd. She has been with this boy for about 6 years ( she is 24). She describes him as negative and not encouraging enough. Furthermore, she told me that this boy has some heart problems ( his heart rate is really slow and medics are highly concerned ) therefore her family won't allow her to be with him.

For the last 3 months we have been on holiday twice and we had amazing time together.
my concern : I gave a necklace , a beautiful one and said look ' I really like you but you have to tell me wether you want to be with me or not . I don't want to be involved in pointless relationships. I want you to make a decision, if you want to be with me you have to tell him about me ....think about it and let me know within a week'.

You see guys , I know stealing somebody's gf is really bad and unacceptable . On the other hand I know that when girls spend a long period of time with a guy they find it really difficult to start afresh.

I'm focused on my career right now and studies are my priority she is aiming at the same too. I firmly believe that we can achieve things together, support each other and be happy. Most importantly, I will help her a lot. But the though that I'm stealing her from her bf is killing me .


Any advice is highly appreciated.

Thanks guys.

You are your own moral compass.

With that said lets go over some points.

1. She's not married.
2. She sure as shit doesn't sound very committed anyway.
3. She is clearly showing interest in you.

Conclusion = Fair game.

Now you.

What are YOU attempting to do here? Fuck her? Make her your sweetie? Be her BFF?

You went 'On Holiday', did you fuck her yet?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I want to make her to be my gf and be free of those thoughts ( I have stolen her from her current bf).

Yes we have sex quite regularly at least 3 times a week.
I quite often stay at her place and she at mine. She even wants to move out with me.

my concern: she tells me I want to spend all my life with you ... Give birth to the most beautiful kids .. Etc
I don't feel quite ready for those things right now. in few Years time may be... But still quite scary. I don't wanna mess up by thinking about those things too much.

If your banging her that often, and she's talking about babies and future, I fail to see a problem, other than your own guilt.

Quit over analyzing and enjoy.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

This bitch sounds mental. She's been with this guy 6 years, which is roughly a quarter of her life. She's telling you she wants your kids?

If a girl was with a guy for less than a year and not feeling it, do whatever you like. That's fair game.

She's giving you a peek at her true self and, if you ask me, it looks ugly.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

I agree. Also remember OP, put yourself in the BF's shoes and remember the golden rule: Karma is a bitch.

Do you really feel guilty? Or do you feel insecure because you think you're stealing her from someone else, and if that's possible, you could be the next guy to lose her to some other suave guy?

If you've gotten this far with her, and she has not officially broken it off with the other guy, she's a fuck toy, not gf material. Enjoy her for that and nothing more.

Right, in fact she hasn't broken with her bf, as from what I can see she is still texting him pretty much every day.
On the other hand, she quite nicely looks after me : doing laundry, ironing, ect.

It is a bit confusing isn't it. But for the most part I will agree with vhou812. She might not be a gf material.

I can't stand guys who go after women who are taken. It shows absolutely no character. It's sleazy.

There are many millions - hundreds of millions - of single women - go for them.

If the chick likes you she can dump her boyfriend first. But going after a woman who's taken is lame.

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