On what should be a pull or even single night lay is squandered. I am having issues penetrating girls. They wont surrender and I am getting turned off. I feel like this should come easier. I get stuck with last minute resistance. I try take always. I try false tines restraints but, it's like disarming a bomb. I get annoyed annoyed realizing I left with the wrong girl.

I keep asking myself what can I do better?

Be more alpha. Lead. Take off my clothes. Escalate fast. Stop touching her before she can shut me down. Instruct her what I like her to do.

One more short coming is I always leave it up to maybe next time instead of burning down a set. I approached lots. I took numbers although I feel I should of did better and got more. A couple girls would leave, I let them go but, they come back. I got isolation. I left the friend with an impression and if her bf wasn't there, I may have left with her. I picked the wrong girl.

I get lots of numbers. Flakes happens. Numbers are forgotten but sometimes, they come around. It's always after getting it else where. This part of the game makes me mad.

Thoughts are welcome. I could use some closing advice.

i don't know why but i read this like thane from mass effect.........okn now that the nerd is out of me.....it sounds that you are maybe too aggressive when you're trying to close.....i've seen alot of one night stands happen and im closed in a small amount of time also and i know its more about getting her in the mood than you getting off one.....maybe you escalated to quick or maybe when you touched her it was to rough or maybe not enough eye contact.....im not real familiar with what could have went wrong because i never been denied.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I appreciate the input.

My actual fr is under taf. I would like it but, I would get an infraction. The most disappointing fact is that, I don't feel like I was aggressive enough. To reiterate, I used the good girl bad girl opener. They liked me. Her friends bf showed up. She nodded as in "I approved of you fucking him." I got isolation with her. Later she went to find her friends. I let her while I approach other girls. Dance floor game, she grabs her jacket. Another girl approaches. We flirt. She asks if I have gf having seen me with girls all night she kisses my forehead. I assumed this was make out. I carry on like nothing happened. I drop her off. She asks me in. I agree but only for a bit. She shows pics, her dog, and then, we fool around. No close.

What gives? The other girl that came up, I should have closed or took her number but she took off after embarrassing herself. I took the wrong girl. The one I left with is gone no contact or responds only if I initiate.

i understand completly now......but that's life man, and a big part of PUA....trial and error and your made and error, you can either dwell on it and make yourself mad or learn from it so the next time you'll get better

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thanks. Any tips for lmr next time?