I have posted A LOT of shitty threads in the past (that is an understatement) and gone off on a lot of you. Wish I could add value to this forum but I cannot. Here is the deal. A lot of my issues (college, race/attraction, etc.) are things I just cannot talk to people about in real life. I come on this forum and some others and see guys who seem to be knowledgeable about a lot of things and just feel the need to have my voice be heard by them and have them as friends I never had the chance to make in real life.

I am one of the very few kids from my high school to go off to college. Then I arrive at college and cannot relate to a lot of the kids and even when I try to better my chances of making friends and getting laid I fall flat on my face.

Maybe some people post on forums and hide the fact that their life fucking sucks, other post on forums because they just enjoy it, and some post on forums because they want to help people.

I have had high points in my life but right now, my life is at a low when it comes to social life and hookups. One day I had a dream that I would occasionally come on forums and that would be as a better person who helps others down on their luck.

But unfortunately I have mostly used my time here to let it all out. To let things that bother me out and hope that someone offers me some hope or relief from it all. Hope that someone gives me advice and things change.

To some extent they really have, I no longer get as insecure about my race but hey, here I am bitching about college these days....

I just wish there were thing I could do to take my mind off of it all but my mind is still stuck on it. No matter what I do I still want that awesome social life with cool friends and a chance to date attractive girls (the kind I like). And my mind keeps fixating on it for some reason too.

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Okay

You need a therapist.

I don't say that to be rude or mean. You talk like you have some emotional pain that is affecting your happiness.
All you do is reveal your vulnerability and weaknesses on this forum lately. It concerns me. I am genuinely concerned about your well being. Sharing your feelings is good to locate your insecurities and sore spots however Opening up to other men is often never the way to heal your pain. Men do nothing but ridicule each other and kick each other when they are down. You could be clinically depressed and these guys would probably still tell you to "take responsibility."

Don't listen to those two, they're assholes.
Frankly I can say I respect you more, you looked at yourself and realized you have faults.
The people who read your post and think you have issues are the ones who are content. They may be satisfied with who they are or what they do but they forget they have faults, they aren't perfect. They seek problems in who you are and forget they've at one time or another been in the same spot. That's ignorance.

You've looked at your faults and confronted them. I've realized alot of problems arise in people and even around the forum is the inability to be vulnerable. By starting with routines, a cocky attitude, polishing false confidence until they come to realize "I'm not the shit"

Anyway, buck up man, yeah you're not flawless but who is? we all have our fair share of baggage what separates the men from the frustrated chumps are accepting yours and moving on.

Look around for better friends if it helps, I have close guy friends who I can call up and just spill what's on my mind, they're out there just look around. Scream while you're driving, write, talk to your family, even a stranger. There are people out there who can share a story that's probably just like yours.

Just remember - "He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened." - Lao Tzu

I had that figured out a long time ago. It's the attention you're after. You make so many posts and start so many threads to get a response. Whether good or bad you just want attention from someone you look up to. It's also a lot of your reason for failure in the real world. Rather than letting other seek you out and find your greatness or polarities, you try-hard and seek out their approval and attention.

A good analogy: the annoying younger brother who talks too much.

Just be chill and find some tranquility, man.

Mate again I'm not trying to be harsh here, but your shame is as much of an attention-seeking device as anything else.

FWIW, you were off the forums for a while and then came back showing a much stronger frame. I was impressed. It's clear that you're not learning nothing, even if you're frustrated because you would want to achieve more.

I know that I wrote a harsh comment or two before and that's because I was so frustrated that you seemingly refused to LISTEN. I was just checking out a forum I used to post on years ago (not PUA, something else), and reading it I realised what an awesome forum it was and how knowledgeable some of the people were. But I used it to seek attention and to try and splatter my personal issues over it in the hope of finding some resolution, very much like you have on here (to be fair this was back in my 20s which I believe is where you are now).

The bottom line is, Paramount, your need to speak instead of listening is your biggest flaw. I was the same when I was younger. I would ask people questions and ask for help, but it was all an excuse to talk more. I didn't need solutions. I needed attention. Unfortunately no amount I received would compel me to shut the fuck up and actually listen to others who were wiser and more knowledgeable than me.

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Paramount is so attention-seeking that even his apology is a cry for attention.

You need to see a therapist. You seek attention because you are in despair. No one seems to pick up on the despair and unhappiness.

We do, we just don't all leech off it.

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I am starting to find the root of my problem other than the attention seeking. Look, the main reason I even came on this forum is to do better with women. Right now, I want to date White girls that are above average or attractive (don't we all?). Most of the ones at my college are in a sorority but there is a huge problem. I am not White and my college is still a school that is pretty segregated socially. You don't see sorority girls hang out with minorities, like ever, especially not Asians and Indians.

Do you guys think that moving to a more open minded area in the USA would solve my problems?

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Ban this troll please mods. Beyond a joke now.

*yawns*

I am the troll? You have yet to make a good post motherfucker, you are a wasted piece of shit that should have been aborted. You need to be locked in a mental asylum you lying piece of shit. Hands down the most terrible poster on this forum full of good posters. Don't even post on my threads, you aren't good enough dumbass. Reply to my posts years later when you finally have a lay.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Lolbro! You "yawn" to imply you're bored and not bothered, then you proceed to do the complete opposite and shit your pants with rage???

Now your true colours are showing and the real truth: Losing this "outlet" to get attention is your worst nightmare. The moment "ban" is suggested, you panic like a psycho. I need to be locked in a mental asylum apparently... lol

You're not sorry at all. You just ran out of ideas for new race threads. And sure enough it didn't take you long to start talking about college and race again.

Get over yourself. You are the whiniest little bitch on the forum. Grow a pair. If you were actually getting laid, you wouldn't be such a little bitch. No girl in their right mind will find you attractive since you cannot accept what you are and embrace it. I am here to help people who want to be helped. You don't want help, you just want attention from other guys on here. Hence why you need to be banned.

Dude, you're asian. Plenty of white chicks are fine with asian dudes. We've talked about how it is here in the south. It is true, most white women are not into darker races like blacks (most Arab/indian's just smell bad). But I've never seen one who is against an asian. One of my good friends is actually half black. He loves white women. He was also raised in a all white rasist family. So imagine a rasist white guy in a black guys body. Dude still manages to date, fuck and get with plenty of hot white chicks. Which really gets hard for him because he won't get with a girl who messes around with black guys... yes a black guy who won't fuck girls who fuck black guys. If he can do it with those fucked up circumstances, I'm sure you can too.

Stop blaming your race. This isn't 1968. The vietnam/korean wars are long over.