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| spamber | PostPosted: Sun Nov 03, 2013 6:59 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Nov 03, 2013 6:45 pm Posts: 4 | | Hey there guys.
Last Monday I approached a girl during a daygame and she was actually happy to go for an instant date for 15 mins to grab a coffee. I got her number and we set things up to hang out on Saturday that same day.
I called her once after that and the interaction was good and we texted a few times because she texted me first on Tuesday, but somehow all of a sudden,
I feel like she got "cold" and eventually ditched me on Saturday saying that one of her friend visited her as a surprise which might be true.
Anyway, I don't really know what I did wrong. I kind of feel that we lost the interaction because I didn't really talk to her much not to look so needy or desperate.
Today is Sunday and I talked to her but no reply so I guess I will talk to her back after a few days.
I don't know what to do now and how to get this back on fire. I guess I will talk to her and try to hang out once more...
Any ideas of what I might did wrong or any recommendations to follow plz?
Thanks guys.
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| ConfidenceMatters | PostPosted: Sun Nov 03, 2013 10:02 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:12 am Posts: 269 | | Most people try to keep some distance from their desires. Try not to take it personally.
Try to bait her along with something interesting. Do a google search for "text game pua" and that'll give you a good guide on how to text people.
Other than that, just invite her to the stuff you normally like to do (hiking, drinking with friends, etc.) The best way to do this is to make declarative/commanding statements with definite time periods like "You should come with me on a hike on Saturday at 10" or "I'm going to drink with some friends at 6 on Wednesday. Come"
If/when she flakes just text her once with something like "gay" or "8==D~" and she'll realize that she's being an ass.
But you have to remember she's just shit testing you right now to see how persistent you're going to be. That being said, give up after a month. _________________ The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek
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| spamber | PostPosted: Fri Nov 08, 2013 11:45 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Nov 03, 2013 6:45 pm Posts: 4 | | Thanks man, your comments really helped me and gave me some motivation.
I'll try my best to heat this thing up before giving up.
Thx!
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