Hey guys,
I've been gaming this girl quite well
Managed to take her out for a casual date + great kino at the end of the night.
However, what I am really curious about is "DO GIRLS EVER TEXT FIRST?"

Girls I've been with were much invested in me, but they never texted me first.
But, when I texted them, their response and IOI were great.
This confuses me, whether or not girls not initiating the text first reflect their level of investment
Answers would be greatly appreciated)

cheers for always guys

Some people, males and females, never take the first move in text because they don't even think about it.
Don't make this your concern. Use texts to invite and small convos and escalate when you're out with her.

Some girls initiate yes. But that's because unlike most , their head isn't up their asses.

Truth is most women don't know shit about men. They just know the afc's that will shower them with attention all day everyday , so if you're not doing it must mean you don't like her. So she gets discouraged to do anything herself.


I had a friend over yesterday - female - and each time her phone went off she'd pounce that shit like a lion pounces injured pray. Then she'd get all frustrated cuz "All these guys keep bugging me but it's never X. I want X to text me !".

So naturally I told her this magic forbidden secret where she takes the phone and texts him first. The look on her face pretty much said that she was completely oblivious that she can actually do that.

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Thanks guys it was helpful, cuz I've been having this stuck into my mind, "if a girl do not text you first, I haven't created enough attraction/comfort" now it's quite clear. Cheers!

Also, what's the core aim of text gaming?
I always to have like this random conversation with this girl via text, but I don't think it's getting me anywhere!
I mean, I've escalated quite significantly through text games, but what I'm really not sure of is
- do I use text game only when setting up dates/times or verbally escalating?
- or can you have a talk throughout the day, provided that we are in the comfort zone (some peeps say I might become her text buddy, but I have already made out with her twice)

The way I see it there is no problem in keeping a conversation, since you don't make a habit of it. At least, she will become acostumed to talking to you, and once you stop talking she will think what went wrong and will try to chase you, investing in you.

If you spend a lot of time texting and do not escalate or close, then you are in trouble.

Thanks bud, i get the point:) I always close, so it should be fine then)

Girls will only text first if they are really keen

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