Hey guys, i've been together with this girl for 5 months, this is my first relationship and things have been going pretty good so far, we never really saw eachother that much, we've only been seeing each other like 1 or 2 times a week, sometimes even farther between, she most often initiates contact. She is pretty insecure and is often very afraid that i'm gonna find someone better than her, I took her virginity and she seems to be pretty in love with me.

Anyway we haven't seen each other for like 4-5 weeks now and i don't know if i should call it off now and find another girl. She's been having a hard time at home with her parents and finishing her exams, she actually messaged me a couple of days ago and said how sorry she is that her own problems have gotten in the way of our relationship and it's all gonna change when she gets her shit together or whatever. She says she's been buisy most of the time and has just been studying and sleeping a lot, i think she might be a bit depressed.

But something tells me that maybe this is not the case, she was out with a lot of her friends the other day and travelled quite the mile to go to another city and buy clothes and stuff, she seems to still make effort of making herself attractive, it's not that she looks like a depressed sack and has lost control over her weight or anything like that, so why doesen't she make time to go see me instead? :S I know i'm probably overreacting a bit but it seems like she's only keeping me just "to have a boyfriend" or whatever, i know she might have personal problems and such but i mean i gotta get my rocks off man and it's been like 5 weeks now and i think i might just get a new one instead :/ I have made it seem like it haven't bothered me and i'm doing new fun exciting things instead but you know a man got his physical needs

She still messages me a lot and tells me how madly she's in love with me, she said she was sorry we haven't seen eachother for a long time and it's her fault but then again she's not really making time to come see me. So, should i keep her and just let her take her time or should i just move on and get another one?

I'd tell her that actions speak louder than words, tell her to come back to you when she's ready for a relationship - Obviously don't tell her in a bitter tone, just let her know that you are not waiting around for her. She's stringing you along while possibly looking for someone else.

Find yourself another girl, time to move on. Especially if this is your first relationship. Go out and experience the world, make new memories!

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OP you can't stand for this it is obvious she has free time just not any for you. MOVE ON and game other girls.

Hmmm great thought

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