You could always add something special to her drink before the dance...

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Sounds like you have alot of experience with that ... (new rapist in da town??)

Like Largon said, this sorta shit only happens when you fail to Be the Man in the relationship. if some guy wants to take your women out, you first need to ask what sorta girl she really is and if its worth landing a relationship with her.

other than that, i can only see a few things that went wrong here: you were too easy for her - not a challenge, invested way too much - You are quite clearly affected more than she is., was beta - well, someone else is taking-your girl out. this ones a no-brainer.

Look-up on how to be alpha. this will save you from future BS like this. it might be hard, but the best option is to walk away, unless you wanna hear her reasons. but only hear her out so you can figure where you went wrong. i doubt you will hear much from her after.

this is the hole i landed my own ass with two girls this year. i even managed to push a girl that took me out on a date to ditch me.

if you want to learn from these sorta mistakes, document and learn.

your boi!

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

Instant break up is right. It sounds like she was trying to keep it a secret from you. If she doesn't want you as her prom date she is not that into you. You've only got 6 months into it and with your growing pua skills you will have lots of options to replace her

If you can stay calm you should ask her about it like the previous poster said. Debriefing might give you some valuable info about where you went wrong.

Wow. Sucks to be you. That must hurt. I am going to swim against the tide here and say, don't just walk away. Give that girl a piece of your mind. Not just a little piece, but a big piece.

I'd do it for two reasons, first, because it would take courage to really rip her a new one, then formally dump her, and then leave. It seems that you need to build your courage muscles. Second, it will feel good.

Look at this as an opportunity. You can face your fear and it should be a wake up call that you need to work on your game.

Personally, I would hard next.

It takes no courage to do this. She hasn't earned the courtesy of a spoken dismissal.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

It's not a noble thing, but it certainly take courage for many guys to get in conflict with a girl they like. Probably the girl in question walks on him. Just look at the situation. For him to man up and confront her would be a difficult thing and worth doing.

It's not about her. It's about him.

There is no greater power a man can display than saying no and goodbye to a woman he still wants to be with--the power of the pussy must be smashed,this girl needs to be nexted and dont bother having the talk- do you really think shes gonna tell much truth anyway

True about the power Herne. Definitely next the girl. It's not about trying to gain some kind of closure or something. It is about facing fear. Facing potential conflict. Facing a place where a girl can inflict some damage. It's a good opportunity to face a situation that is difficult and perhaps scary. The more a person faces those situations, the more they are able to face a situation like opening a hotty on the street.

Being total comfortable with the feeling of fear is what we're after.

i wouldn't even bother speaking to her, just a quick text saying 'dont think it's gonna work and i'm now deleting your number to prevent any unwanted messages between us, bye bye '

Then go completly cold on her, as in not speaking to her for a good long time if ever

This is the only way to come out of this without looking even more beta