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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
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NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 2:30 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | It seems like whenever I first meet a girl lately, things go really great off the start (Usually ending in a number close or she messages me on facebook.) After the first week or so, sometimes even sooner they either stop talking to me completely, or make him dumb excuses on why they can't hang out. WTF am I doing wrong here?
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 3:34 am | |
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Location: Nottingham, UK | | Need more info than this. How often are you contacting these girls? How many FB messages or texts are you sending them?
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 3:52 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | well, they usually text me all day, but I switch up reply times. And i don't think I sound to eager on anything but i could be wrong.
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 3:59 am | |
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Location: Nottingham, UK | | But who is initiating the contact? Doesn't matter how many messages go back and forth, who is the first one to say "hi" after the initial introduction? Keep girls away from Facebook imo, or they stalk. Phone numbers are the way to go. Use texts only to either a) build sexual tension or b) arrange a meet.
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:07 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | it goes both ways, she'll initiate one day i'll initiate the next and so on. so don't use texts to talk and get to know them at all? isn't that what would make them more comfortable to actually hang out rather than "some guy who got my number and now wants to meet up"?
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:21 am | |
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Location: Nottingham, UK | | You shouldn't need to build comfort. If you did your first meet correctly in the club, she can't wait to see you again!
Also ask yourself the question, are you looking for a girlfriend or a fuck buddy?
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:25 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | It isn't from clubs, it's usually day game stuff.so just go straight from that into asking her to meet up?
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:45 am | |
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Location: Nottingham, UK | | OK day game is different, I thought you were talking about girls you'd kino'd / k-closed in a club.
But yeah, push for a meet in a coffee shop or something. You can't expect girls to build a proper connection with you if you never meet up for a Day 2.
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:49 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | That's what I'm saying though, when I go for the second meet up they flake
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 5:10 am | |
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Location: Nottingham, UK | | Are you getting to the point where the flakes are affecting your confidence?
What kind of flakes are we talking about? Just refusing to meet up or arranging a meet and they don't show up?
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| Naps | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 5:20 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | It's getting to a point where I'm just so tired of it cause it happens almost every time, and sure it's starting to affect my confidence cause I don't know why it's going that way. They'll agree to meet and then either day of or night before they'll bail. Sometimes with a believable excuse mostly with a real shitty one, and when I ask if other days work better its always a "oh ill let you know, cause I'm terrible with planning things." So I leave it at that
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 5:29 am | |
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