Oneitis is not liking a girl. Oneitis is not having a crush on a girl. Oneitis is not putting the pussy on a pedestal.Oneitis is being obsessed with a girl. This obsession comes from a romanticized view of her either because you have no exerpience with women or you can't get other women (she has too much value in your mind).

Guys don't get into the game to fuck a lot of women. That's a manwhore and thats how you get herpes. Guys get into the game to get a girl they really like and how do you do that? Its not an opener. Its not a routine. This is somebody you're going to see everyday. This is somebody that may have a bad first impression of you. So what you do is you get to know her. You get to know what she likes. You get to know her friend. You get to know her family. You get their approval. THen you make an impression. This is a daily thing. This is a lifestyle son. If you got any opinions or personal stories of success add to this.

Last semester there was a girl in my class and I would look at her everyday. I would dream of being with her. I would think to myself I just wish i could have that. I bet her farts smell like roses. I went up to her at a party. Danced with her. I mean i put that bump grind motion on her. Then I gave her a line. Couple weeks later she is in my room and I am sucking on her tits. Mack. I liked her a lot but it wasn't oneitis. I was still talking to other girls.

Yer man, I was like "No no" before the last sentences came lol

But I truly agree with you, its just that guys at this point cant see behind the curtains because they dont know the curtain exists if you get what I mean. In most of times you need to fail miserably before you understand that its just an obsession the her and there are better girls especially FOR YOU, because oneitis most likely means "This is the only right girl for me, there will be no else I want this much. I will do everything to get her." Even though you get close her, you will fuck it up because her value in your little mind is too much for you handle. Happened to me,
Girl: whining something
Me: "Suck my cock already"
Girl: "Ill suck your cock right behind that stage"

I froze up and threw something like "Pff.." because I thought like I dont deserve it or something. Best cure to oneitis is still IMO start meeting new girls.

I'm talking to three girls right now and I think I have oneitis for all three. I want to marry all of them lol

Thats weird

im from Utah

I have oneititis for a girl i work with (she started just before Xmas) We get on ridiculously well, but i cant figure out if she's truely interested or i've fallen into a freindzone.

I have come up with two solutions. First off, start seeing another girl, and see if her seeing me with another attractive girl will make her realise she wants me.

Or, at an upcoming work night out give her plenty of kino and compliance tests and see what the response is.

If you do not like the girl do not approach at all. You can practice even on the dislike basis.

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You should know exactly where the girl is and reaction of the girl. When the reaction is positive, then you should talk and approach immediately. Women value strength and similarity. If you wait then it changes the relationship even in the future.