Hey guys new to the forum and honestly am addicted. Sorry I don't know where to post so hopefully its in the right spot or a mod can move it for me.

Last night I went out in Sydney and picked up 3 girls. I do get nervous because sometimes I think I'm gonna stuff up my opening but most of the time I use a compliment as my opening. The problem is I don't know how to hold a conversation. It got a little awkward talking to a girl because I ran out of things to say then I just started asking questions but felt I was asking too much. I still ended up getting her number but if any one has suggestions how I can fix this that would be great.

Another girl I asked at the bar straight up for her number because she was working and I just felt like being straight forward with out laying any ground work and she actually gave me her number. What do I say now? Do I message her or call her?

Any help would be appreciated. This forum is great. I spend most of my time just reading through and absolutely find it addictive.

Cheers

You get better and better at conversation with women the more approaches you make. Simple and obvious I know.

However at first it is a good idea to have a number of 'routines'. Like having a basic script that you could either follow closely or just recall when you need it. Their is a thread on the forum about conversation, have a look at that.

It's a good technique when starting out. You won't need it eventually, at least not all of it.

By the way, why would you get a girls number and not message or call her?! She might 'flake' if your interaction wasn't great but at least give it a try.

Yeah sometimes I just freeze and don't know what else to say after opening. I even had one girl say "whats with all the questions?" I didnt know what to say after that so I just said nothing it was nice meeting you and walked off. I felt like an utter loser!

Ill take that advice thanks Johnny. I'll start writing some stuff down. I ended up calling her and she said shed message back but hasn't yet. I messaged her asking her how her night was but no response. Is she wanting me to call her again or should I just leave it at that?

Firstly, pat yourself on the back for approaching in the first place man! Almost everyone starts off like this dude. Don't turn it into a negative, keep it positive.

My advice is if you think you have made a good attempt at contacting her and you think she may be avoiding replying, leave it and get back out their approaching other women Their is SOOO much more fish in the sea. Never chase a girl and be needy, it is AFC behaviour.

If you have Facebook, you could add her on that but don't start messaging her 24/7 on Facebook, just let her see you having a good time and dating other women in the future. She may eventually contact you or just remain friends.

Thanks heaps Johnny for all the help. I can't wait to actually be good at this game. Ive been reading so much that its all a blur at the moment but I'm gonna keep practicing. I'm reading the book "the game" at the moment which has helped me a lot with my confidence.

You'll definitely see me round the forum in the future.

Cheers