GF didn't appreciate me and I dumped her. Now what?

The clock is ticking on your college experience. You may disagree with me now, but I guarantee when you look back on this in five years, you'll know you did the right thing: don't invest any more time or money in this girl.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

You just re-ignited my mindset-
However, she continues to admit she wronged me and asks what she can do to get me back. I had a lot of fun with her and realize the opportunities in front of me at this time in college. How do girls take it though, I'm hoping she can mature enough during this time so we can be better off in the future. I like her but we just need time apart. Looking forward to sarging

Any other advice guys?

You said "Looking forward to sarging."

Don't look forward to it, just do it. Once you are doing it, you'll worry less about how much fun you had with this girl and if/when she will come around.

Once you are in a position where this no longer bothers you, then maybe I'd see her casually and carefully see how far she's come. But right now you sound like you're too emotionally attached to see things for what they are.

Meet some other women, have fun with them, and see if after some time goes by you are still all worried about this chick. Chances are if you have fun with someone else, this one will be less important, and that's probably what she is worried about.

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If you do still love her and want to get back with each other, I wouldn't jump straight back in to it. I did that once when in a similar situation and the problems pretty much carried on.

You would have to be stern and wait a while, go on a date with another girl, but don't turn into a slut all of a sudden (never ends well if you want her back), just make sure she knows that you have other offers if you want them. Make her know she's fucked up and she has to earn your respect and trust back so she ends up thinking that if she ever tried this shit again you would drop her instantly and permanently.

If you have or do end up deciding you want to move on, drop her from your life completely, cut contact, date other girls, don't be a dick to her or anything, just continue to be the guy you want to be.

It has nothing to do with maturity and if it did so what? your going to wait around while she bangs other dudes until she matures?? lol

I would just go live your life and let her life hers. If she wants a relationship then tell her what you need from her and if she can't give it to you then you have a decision to make. If you wait around for her she will treat you like shit man! and you will feel even worse.

always remember one of the golden rules:


Focus on the Many.


need we say more?

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Thanks

Drop her, completely cut contact therefore 'taking control' of tr situation, seeing her isn't making you happy, here's a secret, it isn't going to just magically fix itself. Get out of all of it and start to do what you want to do, by allowing it to linger around like this it'll just slow you moving on.