This has happened 3 times now. I feel like when I have a 1 night stand, the girls feel awkward and are hesitant to talk or down to pursue anything more than a 1 night stand. Anyone know how to approach this situation?

I feel like I need to build comfort through texting before I could achieve a day 2 but correct me if I'm wrong.

Generally one night stands dont lead to anything else other than friends with benefits at best. If your looking for a girl you can take on dates, then fucking them on the first night isnt the way to go. Count your blessings man, there are many men here wishing they get one nighters, much less get laid. But you want what you want, and if its to get second encounters i say pick a girl specifically for dating. Not a one night stand who you hope to see another time unless its for more fucking not a relationship.

All the best player.

For sure I feel that. Its just that I actually took this girls virginity on Saturday. In her eyes I'm memorable than if she wasn't a virgin and it was just a normal one night stand. I feel like I could turn this around into something more, even if its just friends with benefits. I haven't texted her because I'm looking for some insight in this weird situation.

Hey Brary

yeah i had this problem recently. I thought i built alot of comfort and i wanted to wait til the second or third date before sleeping but they were insistent on the SNL.

The first girl didnt contact again after the lay.
the second girl i decided to play it cool and wait til the second date.
Guess what! no second date despite good comfort kissing and kino.

SNL or waiting longer doesnt really make much of a difference, if she just wants a lay then that's all she wants.

I would say always go for the SNL, if she wants to continue she will contact you again.