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Hello My friends! I Need your advice. I have a problem with a certain girl.
I 24 and she is 20. I meet her In club, and after 3 dates, relation was developing in good dirction. We text a lot, she even said she missed me. On 4th date she come to my place and stay until next day. We drink a little, watch movies, we kiss although she was relucant and the beginning and i made her massage that developed into me fingering her… It surely was pleasent for her althought she didnt allow me to make her orgasm, she just moved back right before climax. Also she didnt want to return a massage.. Then I decided after 2 hours of fun : time to go Steep tommorow we go on a trip..
And from the very next day everything has changed. She become closed, distanced, unwilling toward me, (maybe even kind of angry). She is still texting me from time to time but it is not the same.. I asked her out sever times, she give lot of exuses, and met with me only one time in last 4 weeks and said she must come back Home after 1h … She was distanced, closed off but friendly..
Meanwhile I had a serious injury on a duty (i am firefighter/paramemed.) after which i was in hospital for 2 weeks and she declared that she will visit me but she didnt. I got angry with her and stop texting and after several days she tried to reinitiated contact few times and finalny i answered. Now i will be seeing her twice a week in her school.. But she is still dictanced and closed. I had several women before but this time i fell i really love that girl and care for her so much, if not i would move on much earlier but iam willing to invest time and effort in order to win Her.
My question for you is how should i behave, act, toward Her, What kind of tactic should i use to open her up and make Her willing again. What can I do? What sho[/size]uld I do?[/size]
I think she might be feeling guilty about what she did. The attraction is there, but she might have someone else or something else going on. If you really care, you should talk to her about it, but in private. But realize that when its over, its over, so get ready for that when you bring it up.