met a hb9. know for a month now and we get along well this is a text convo we had

me: did u manage to get home without getting wet?

her: its stopped raining as soon as u left D: but i was a tiny bit wet

me: rain didnt want us to be together.

her: not only the rain... LOL!!

me: what do u mean?

her: was a joke :-O

me: im being really dumb today. wait did u mean u didnt wana see me?

her: yes that's what i was insinuating!!

me:lol ok. took me long enough to understand. what happened i thought we had a good thing happening ? Very Happy

her:what's a good thing happening? :-S

me: ok i guess we're both having a dumb day today Smile

her: nahhh u still havent answered my question!!

me: i dont know i was just thinking we get along sooo well. why what did u think i meant?

her: what like "really really well Wink"?

me: i guess....
actually u would be right if u felt the same way otherwise i would be
living in a fantasy

her: what are u on about? D:
maybe u are living in a fantasy..

from here i just diverted the topic to music
so what exactly did i do wrong here apart from act a bit needy and what do her texts mean. especially the last 5 replies from her?

It seems like she's hinting at keeping you at a distance and you are kind of trying to convince her to come closer. That's not likely to work. The only way to deal with that is to back off, even show a little distance yourself and then work to reattract.

Imagine if you wanted someone to eat something you cooked and they are giving signs of not being hungry. You can hint and push that they should eat it anyway. But really much better to try to stimulate their hunger so they actually want it.

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Yea sorry pc lagged n I thought my post didnt get put up so I spammed a bit too much