| Hey I am The Mountain, currently an rAFC that is trying to become good with women.
Yesterday I went out sarging solo, since all my friends bailed on me, didnt actually bother me because I told myself that this would be a really good experience. It was, I got rejected more than 10 times in 3 hours and got 0 closes.
I am not going to note all of them down, only the 2 most note-able ones. Also I am going to say what I did (good/wrong) and how I believe I can make sure that this wont happen again.
Girl1: HB 6,5 with her friends (group of 6).
I entered the bar/club early when there were not that many people there. First thing I did was go to the barman, start a conversation and order some beer. Helped me later on in the evening cause I always got served ASAP ones I wanted to buy something.
While I was drinking my bear I scanned the place down to see what groups were the ones I had to look out for. Those were about 3 different groups with Alfa looking man. What I did then was start a conversation with them, so they started to like me and I could build some social proof. I have quite a lot of experience in sales, so I could come of as a fun and Alfa male by them, so i got accepted.
All the time I was dancing and having fun, I was dressed better than anyone there (maybe too overdressed) and the fact that I was building social proof fast drew a lot of attention to me, so until this moment I didnt do anything wrong.
While I was dancing I met a girl who made eye contact with me and showed some dancemoves herself. I didnt say anything and started to dance too. It was fun, I joked a little nonverbally complimented her on her skills cause she ''outdanced'' me etc. Started conversations with her friends etc. But I couldnt excalate this.
What did I do wrong?? (selfanalysis)
Opening wasnt a problem, but after the opening I couldnt escalate it to something more. I danced too far away from her. I didnt get close, so I also couldnt use good Kino, that screwed my chances up.
What I also did was making the dancing some kind of competition with her. So when she won the ''battle'', she also lost interest I believe. Though this as a game could be a good idea if I put in a lot more KINO. (advise??)
How to make sure this doesnt happen anymore? (tips needed)
Dont make the dance a cometition but keep it cool etc.
Most important, within a couple of seconds I have to get close to her and start heavy KINO.
Girl nm2: HB 7,5 with HB7 friend
I believe I did this a lot better than the previous one. These were two girls who were just standing still and doing nothing. So when I saw them I immediatelly approached them and did some dumb dance move. With a smile etc so they knew this was some kind of joke. Then I got both of them dancing with me.
It was fun and we had a reasonably interesting conversation. They laughed at my jokes even though they were not funny so everything was good I thought. The problem here was that I couldnt isolate the HB7,5. Her friend just stayed close all the time. And because of that I also didnt want to take the risk of excalating this more. I kinda regret this.
After some time I saw that they were becomming bored, so before they could say that they wanted to go to the bathroom or something like that I did.
Took my phone out, looked the 7,5 in the eyes and sayd that I needed to phone someone, but I would meet her later that night.
Went to the bathroom, talked with the toilet miss for a couple of minutes, went back and lost the two girls.
Havent seen the two babes anymore that night.
Selfanalysis of what I did wrong.
First of all I did not isolate the girl.
I also didnt escalate this as much as I should have. Therefore I became the fun guy in the club and nothing more. Once again I believe I need to use more KINO.
What to work on
Approaching isnt hard for me and I really dont fear rejection. My past job as on door marketeer has rid me of those problems in the last year. My problem lies in the escalation part of the game.
Therefore this week I am going to work more on that phase. First Ill read a few guides about using KINO.
If someone has good techniques that work for sexual escalation, I would really appreciate it if they told me about those techniques.
Also I would really appreciate it, if someone gave me some pointers on how to isolate a girl when I'm solo sarging .
Hope I can give a layreport on the end of next week :p
Greatings,
The Mountain.
PS. Grammar Nazis welcome, but plz pm me and not on forum
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