Hi!

Awsome you are answering questions!

Two fast Q's

How do you respond to invitation decline for date 2? over text that is.

Girls always makes fun of my Nokia C2(Old nokia) lol, I dont really want iphone and shit, whats a good respons ? usually I just say it works fine and it has color screen. They laugh abit then we move on.

Ty !

"I bet you can't use your Iphone for self defence...I can kill people with my Nokia."

Here's a good joke:


As I sat down in the pub with my pint, I put my Nokia 3310 on the table in front of me. My mate immediately burst out laughing and put his iPhone next to mine. I gave it a disdainful look.

"Why don't you get a better phone, mate?" he asked.

"I don't need one." I replied. "My phone does everything that I need and it's better than yours."

He burst out laughing again. "Better than mine?" he roared. "Mine has 3G, Wi-Fi, the iMessage service, a best-in-class browser, five megapixel camera, access to the App Store for virtually unlimited customisation plus a built-in iPod for all my music. If yours is better than mine, I'll give you my phone."

"I don't want your phone." I said, "Mine's the best, why would I want a second-best, second-hand phone? I tell you what, though, if I can prove that mine is better than yours, how about you give me the cash equivalent of your phone?"

"You're on!" he crowed. "Show me something with your phone and I'll show you how mine is better."

Casually, I knocked my phone off the table.

Every woman is unique, but if I were to generalize I'd say about 5-8 days after I meet them. It is crucial to always keep the fire hot, the sooner you can seduce your target after you meet her, the better chances you will have. Women are incredibly indecisive and will talk themselves out of almost anything if they are given enough time.

ALWAYS make your seduction attempt as soon as possible, with every woman. If you can't due to logistics or circumstance, it is imperative that you keep the fire hot.

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Since she gave you her correct digits, you still have a fighting change, what you must do is create attraction through your wit and personality. I know its kind of late but perhaps you can use this advice for future reference. Women have a very short memory when it comes to random men they meet. In this particular case it would be in your best interest to message her almost immediately. Since you did not spend much time talking with her it is important that you build some rapport find some commonalities and try to make her comfortable messaging you, then state your interest and try to set up a meeting. be flirtatious, try to see where her interest stands. Don't be afraid to try to start to talk sexual, if she response well, keep ramping it up. Then try to get her out for a meeting.

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Haha you are god with those commics ! ty

hey sex addict how do you deal with those alpha female type chicks.. who it literally seems as if they are trying to tool you in conversation... when talking to these types of girls i tend to find myself losing confidence and speaking lower.. what kind of mindset do you have when you approach a girl and you realize shes this kind of girl

Had her in my bed on first date, failed to Fclose.
Need ideeas for 2nd date.

So basically I did my first date routine (got her number on the street, after a 30 seconds interaction):
-called her and set up a meeting time and location
-met her there and then I told her to follow me (didn't tell her where we're going, if she asks I tell her to trust me)
-went for coffee, talked, went for IOM (grabbed her hand and got mutual hand carressing, did that before coffee)
-went to park, got some sexual kino going
-got her to my place (didn't tell her where we're going, she asked when we were almost there and I told her "trust me")
-had a drink, smoke, sexual kino (got some resistance when I tried to put my hand into her pants); physical not verbal (had some of that when I touched her breasts, but got past it)
-I wanted to try 60yoc advice so I wanted to save the kiss for when I am at least fingering her
-kissed her neck etc. ; when she tried to kiss me I pulled back (only let her kiss my neck etc.)

Anyway...we got back inside (this all happend on the terrace) and she sat on a chair. I grab her hand and I pull her towards the bed and she says no. I didn't feel like pushing it anymore so I tell her I want to see the end of a movie: I put it on, we both get on the bed, she crawls next to me. Some more kino during the movie.
After that we just went to sleep (it was late, she had to get up in the morning to work and I promised i'd take her back...and I didn't feel like pushing it).

Anyway...now I'll be seeing her for a day two...and i'd like to fclose. Any suggestions what I should do? Just try to take her straight back to my place as soon as we meet?

Thanks for advice. Here's an update if you're interested:
She wanted to set up a meet(after she asked me why i'm so sure we'll meet, I told her "That's me. Sure of myself", then I texted her location and time, she said she can't but few days after she texted me back time and location where she wants to meet) but I told her i'm not sure if I can free up my schedule and i'd give her a call the next day for confirm (I was meeting someone else and I wanted to have my cake and it it too), before the time that we'd agreed to call came she texted me saying she's leaving town and can't make it. (somehow I think she's a busy lady...maybe married).
Anywayz...long story short I cleaned my phone (deleted about 50 numbers that I wasn't going to call again or just weren't good leads, including hers; I figured she'll text me if she wants a meet)...but yesterday I get a text from her "Monday i'm back in town. If you'd still like to meet".
She never called me, only text (shy? or can't talk). I called her after he last text (about 1h after), didn't answer.
Unfortunatly i'll be out of the country by then...oh well...maybe some other time.

Nevermind. Called her a day ago, she told me she was busy (told me she has to blah blah) that evening but we could see eachother today. I told her that I need to check my schedule and i'll call her today.
I texted her a meet time and location...then called her and my call got rejected.

I guess that's what I get...should of set up a meeting time yesterday when I had the chance...and start living like there's no tomorrow: because there isn't. Next time I'll push for fclose.

Anyway...time permitting could you give me some hints on how to improve my first date game in order to get to an fclose?

I assume you are talking about 1-1 and not a mother hen in a group of girls.

It all depends on her tone, demeanor and overall vibe. If you are feeling dissed then by all means stand up for yourself.

Always keep in mind that women are generally more insecure then men, so if it is to a point where a girl is trying to clown you, it's time to give some back. A well placed diss on her looks or attire can do wonders. It's also important to recognize if she is in fact doing it to bother you or just doing it out of interest in you.

If she's doing it out of interest, it's wise to just play along and laugh it off ( sometimes women will act this way when they are really interested) If she's doing it to obtain power or clown you, give some back. It could just be one huge shit test, and women don't like push overs or pussies. DON'T BE A PUSSY? but don't be rude either.

Just remember, if you two were stranded on a desert island, she'd be the one seeking your protection. Keep that in your mind, she's just a girl. You're a MAN.

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You must have a constant sexual frame, even when just being friendly and building comfort. You see! The more sexual you are and act, the more the target will associate you with sex. If she starts to develop an interest in you throughout the encounter, she will have sex or sexual contact in her thoughts as it is always present from you.

Here's the thing, sexual frame from a man is expected, it's in our genetic code. As long as you moderate yourself based on your targets reactions to you, they will never get offended by your sexual frame. In other words, be a gentleman in all else you do, but keep a strong sexual frame. If she gives you hints to slow it down a bit, then slow it down , if she reacts well to your sexuality and gives some back, then ramp it up. But ALWAYS have it present.

Women love a man that treats them right, but also want to be dominated in bed, so you must give them this impression. This is why you must have the sexual frame.

If your target reacts well to your sexuality and it becomes the topic of discussion, be sure to give her things to think about, dominant things.

here's some examples of what to say to a woman that is showing interest and reacting well to your sexual frame during an encounter and while trying to get her to come home for an F close.

You: I have to tell you something, when you got up and walked to the washroom, i couldn't help but look at your beautiful ass. All I could think was how hot it would be for me to pick you up and throw you over one of those tables and just kiss you all over.

You: May I ask something personal, Have you ever been picked up and fucked while against the wall in a shower or on the hood of a car.

You: I I'd love to just rip that dress right off of you. and kiss your everywhere.


The above are just examples of expressing a dominant self, ideally after you already know the girl is interested and comfortable with you.

If you can balance being a gentleman with a dominant sexual frame, you should have much greater odds of closing the deal.

Note: all women are different, so it's important to read her body language and look for the signs of interest. If its all there, the general recipe ( at least for me) Is gentleman with a strong sexual frame.


If it is sex you want, you must be sexual in all that you do. Soon it will become second nature and start to exude out of you both consciously and through your body language.

Good luck bro.

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So i was with some friends out last night. An other friend (lets call him ah) came to the same joint and was with 2 girls, non of which his girlfriend. On was an HB 8 and the other an HB 9. I opened by asking "are u 17?" she replied "yes y?" and i said "i had a bet with my friend about it"... anyway we were chatting for a wile and since i wasn't was with an other group i rolled of back to my group.
After 15 min or so AH came to talk to me some more since the girls left to go to the toilet. The hb9 came back first, took her chair put in next to me and we started talking. As the hb 8 came back i invited here into the group.
We chatted some more and then she gave me a massive IOI: She lifted up my shirt and then scratched me on the chest.
After a couple more minutes I went home fast and we chatted trough Texts. She tried some shit test i threw them back at here by DHV-ing since it worked swell in that situation.
As i came back the hb8 was siting alone at the table and i took a sit next to her. While an other friend of mine (lets call him b) was siting on the other side of the table. AH joined us and sat beside me. As the Hb 9 came back we chatted a bit and she threw a shit test at me again which i transformed into a kiss. We kissed over the table and the she sat on the other side of the table.
Then the game got fucked as B started hiting on here. And she started to feel as being perceived as a slut. But that's not it AH asked here if she was going to sleep at home, which made her feel even worse. And to top it off here bf, the hb8 said let's change places so u won't need to do it on the table. She felt really sluty and the whole night got ruined for her.
I tried dancing with here afterwards but i felt i sight push from here hand so i just moved to a couple of other friends to say hey, then back to her as if nothing happened.

Didn't call her or add-ed her on fb. What sould i do to get a f-close with her?
And how could i have stoped her from feeling bad in that situation.

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At the time, you should have isolated her, either taking her away from the group to chat or at least, texting her and keeping your convo private. In other words, playing a little game of cat and mouse through texts, keeping it secret from the rest as they all hang out.( especially if the group was creating drama) Then acting normal among the group.

In order to f-close this girl, you have to get her alone, start chatting to her through text and make some arrangements for you two to hang out. JUST YOU TWO!

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Hey sexaddict want to thank you again for the advice you gave me a while back....worked like a treat

First of all, I've taken on board a lot of your general advice on how to conduct yourself and behave around women and without wanting to try and 'blow my own trumpet', I'd like to think I've improved massively to a reasonable level although at 17 I've a way to go yet!


Now another question I've got for ya is I havee got a 3 HBs (HB10,8 and 8)on the go and have decided to concentrate on one HB10 who's always responded well to me as I've developed a connection with her. Trouble is, we're both really busy it's hard to find time when we're both free to just hang out - not an ideal situation for building attraction. So what would you advise to help me escalate strongly and build sexual attraction with these breaks?

Also if that goes tits up I don't want to have wasted my time with the others and find that they've lost interest.

So how can I keep the other two HBs engaged and interested? Btw one HB who's a couple of years younger than me is clearly still very interested and we send multiple flirtacious texts each day but I guess that eventually she'll get bored.

What are your suggestions to keep them alll happy haha?

Cheers bro in advance, greatly appreciate your help and dedicating your time

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Keep them all engaged, either through text or online messages or brief calls. You don't have to be around women all the time to keep them interested, what's important is that you at least keep them engaged. You can send them random texts to remind them that they are on your mind, see how they react, if they are still showing lots of interest then all is good, if it seems they are losing interest, start to try to re-engage and build more attraction. stay flirtatious and friendly, if you can make them laugh, then all the better.

Just don't stress about it, you can easily maintain the interest of a few women at once, just be sure to stay on top of it all. Message all of them equally, gauge their level of interest then react accordingly. If they show lots, you don't have to show as much effort, if it depletes, start to show more effort. ( all while trying to tap them all)

Balance is key my friend.

P.S. bring up kissing, it's a great way to start the ball rolling for escalation. You can even talk randomly about a bad kiss you had before, however you bring it up, it doesn't matter just keep the ball rolling, if she response well, ramp up the sexual talk, it can get hot and heavy really fast. But even if she's not into the naughty talk, you can keep her thoughts engaged. Every girl/woman dreams of a perfect kiss, and passion.

This is always a sure way to begin escalation with ANY woman.

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