OK so as some of you may have read, I'm back on the market for all those lucky ladies. So, what better way to kick things off than with a new field report thread.

Sat 14th July

I headed out round Chorlton (Manchester) to buy some food. Went to Morrison, feeling pretty chipper, checking out some nice ladies in the sun, nothing overly inspiring though. Then I went to the arcade and picked up some veg and was about to head home when I clocked this asian bird (looked Malaysian). We clocked each other, decent enough eye contact on my part, she didn't seem too bothered. Anyway, I carry on towards home and start thinking about how I should have said hello to her. I need to create some opportunities for myself, I don't want to be relying on the chick who gave me a blowjob last night for all my needs. I'm a single man and want to remain so. So I headed back to the arcade to see if she was still about.

There she was, so I went straight over:

Me: excuse me (she stopped). I just saw you before and had to come and say hello as you're so cute"
Her: Oh thanks
Me: What's your name
Her: ***
Me: I'm Ashley, nice to meet you. Do you live in Chorlton or are you passing through?

Anyway, you get the picture, we chatted about how cool the shops are in Chorlton, she asked me what I do, and generally we vibe well for 3 or 4 minutes about her being a designer, etc. She designed the dress she had on, nice. I tell her I need to go, but it would be cool to meet her for a coffee (thinking back, perhaps we could have gone for one then). Anyway, I get her number and I'm gonna fire over a text later on to remind her how cool it was meeting each other. Then I'll follow it up with a phone call next week some time.

Something I was thinking about after is that I need to crack on and create more opportunities. Don't let the hotties pass you by in the street without at least trying.

Thats good that you number close the target. But try to step up a notch the next time you sarge during public game, execute an Instant date straight away. Instead of having coffee some other day, have coffee on the day itself. Its bold and shows flaw. All the best.


Cheers....

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Good for your man.

I'm just totally against direct openers saying that you had to say hi to her.I'm totally against that,but it's me I guess in the indirect school of thought.

Decent field report though.Missed opportunity turned around.

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Day game has no right or wrong way to go about it from my experience it's just all down to the girl and you meaning that the chick has her own personality and you dont know her she could have just come from the hospital an had bad news you can neve tell that's why opening direct cuts the shit but after the open (which by the way genuinely does not matter) you have her fall into categories from hat I have learnt this is simple they all and I mean ALL DO.. They fall into being either bitchy or boring that is category one this is easy after the open stay strong give her constant eye contact no routine bullshit just give her what she wants a real reality chek that's because bitchy and boring means she's most likely a 9 or a 10. Or just straight up strange which isn't usually the case.... Leave her a false time constraint get her number and dont first day date really don't do it unless she is compliant to the idea and bring it up herself .. Get the number and the rest is easy she has already experienced you. Next is the fun type this is the girl who will shit test you this is the cute girl who knows what she wants but likes to have fun too you'll see her laugh and smile at your negs which in my opinion only work on this type of girl in day game, feel free to try but I find almost 100% of the time negs won't work on 9-10s and bitches just the ones who can take a joke without too much comfort being built and she will I repeat WILL be game for first day dates...... Then the shy girl like the one your posting about She will give you her number won't be game for first day date ( impressed with this thread and I would have done the same) and she will be very difficult to game so keep it very direct off the bat to let her know the feeling is there so no friend bollocks then play very shy too because from my experience it's all down to you and you only in this she won't invest if she's shy she might even be too scared too text back! If your looking for reactions off the girl whilst in set then this is the downfall to game in general in my opini

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Opinion* .... Sorry for the long post and if u just open a chick and look for her category once that's sussed it's game over, don't look for reactions and don't think of rejections, there's no such thing as rejections for the set to go well means your still alive as long as u don't die the set went well haha that's the best way to look at it.. Have a nice weekend lads .. Paul

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Thanks for the comments gents. I definately like the idea of being direct. I find it dangerous and exciting, and like PaulChris says, it cuts the bullshit. I want the girl to know exactly what my intentions are, I don't want to be ashamed of my desires.

21st July

So it's the afternoon and I’m sat at home nursing a hangover and I suddenly get the urge to go out into the city centre and chat up some lovely ladies.

Girl 1: I see a lovely Chinese student girl breezing down Market St, I see her smiling away.

Me: Excuse me, I just saw you walking past and wanted to say hi as I think you’re cute. What’s your name?

Her: ***

Me: Nice to meet you *** I’m Ashley (I hold out hand to initiate physical contact).

So we chat about what she’s up to today, she then asks if I onky wanted to say hi, I then said I’d like to get to know her better and we should go for a drink. She said no, it’s ok. I say, nice to meet you, see you later.

Girl 2: A few moments later I clock a nice Asian chick heading into Debenhams. I follow and approach

Me: Excuse me, I just saw you walking past and wanted to come and say hi.

Her: no it’s ok

She runs off haha!

Girl 3: again on Market St (it’s a goldmine!!)

Me: Excuse me I saw you and wanted to come and tell you I think you’re really cute.

Her: oh thanks, err

Me: What is your name.

She cautiously takes my hand, it’s as if she thinks I’m holding a joke hand buzzer! We chat about her phone as she is holding an iPhone and looking for the Mac shop. I direct, she tells me she is going. I then tell her it would be nice to see her again, and we should meet up for a drink. She says no, it’s ok.

Girl 4: lovely slim petit Japanese looking girl with glasses with lovey silky hair disappears into TK Maxx. I follow.

Me: Excuse me, I just saw you walking past and just had to come and tell you you have really nice hair.

She smiles, and then looks away at the clothing rail. I ask her her name, she tells me. I tell her mine, but she is still looking at the clothes. I feel phased at this point and hit the eject button telling her it was nice to meet her, she smiles again. I can't help thinking I should have stayed, I think she was just shy.

What I learnt today.

Girl 1: She questioned if all I wanted to do was say hi. Perhaps I need to be more honest about my intentions from the beginning. I don’t ‘just want to say hi’, I want to chat for a bit and get to know her.

Girl 2: I told this girl I wanted to say hi, but nothing else, no wonder she ran off. Again intentions were unknown to her.

Girl 3: She didn’t seem overly receptive to the idea of a drink. Perhaps I need to frame the day 2 differently? Perhaps a drink sounds too formal.

Girl 4: I really should have stayed at this one longer. I let her passiveness/closed body language affect me too much. Obviously I don’t want to bug the girl, but perhaps a little more persistence should have been applied here. Plus point, I was honest with her when I complimented her on hair, this was good, I think she liked this.

Generally: I should have stayed chatting to all the girls longer (I think they longest was 2 mins), rather than allowing them to make excuses and me trying to get their number. I need to build more comfort and they need to get to know me a little more before handing over their numbers.

25th July

I went to some networking event for work on Deansgate in the city centre, and had to speak in front of 50 odd people for 60 seconds. I then mingle with loads of different business types, some of them hot ladies hehe. Good way of loosening me up for approaching some girls on the street afterwards I thought.

I left the venue around 3pm and headed out towards the tram station on Market Street.

Girl 1: Lovely Chinese girl with hot pants, long legs and high heels heading towards Deansgate. I had to follow, see what she’s up to, she leans against the bus stop. I go over.

Me: Excuse me I saw you walking past me before and I wanted to say I really like the way you look, you have a nice style.

She is kind of aloof but receptive. I ask her name, initiate a hand shake and ask her if she is at Uni. I tell her about the networking event, she tells me about Bejing. It took her a good 2 mins to break into any sort of smile. This didn’t bother me and we carried on chatting for around 5-6 mins. I then tell her I think she’s really nice and it would be nice to see her again. I prompt her to give me her number, she ends up giving me her Facebook. We carry on chatting for a bit more about football, then she reveals she has a boyfriend.

This doesn’t bother me so much, she was well into me flirting away, and we had a great interaction. As I walk away I thought she might be able to introduce me to some hot friends or halls of residence housemates. Either way, gonna msg her today on Facebook.

Girl 2: 3 mins later I clock another georgous Chinese girl walking along. I follow and signal her to take her headphones out.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you and think you look really nice and wanted to meet you.

She is cautious. I ask her name, shake her hand. I am conscious of trying to making her feel comfortable her, I smile a lot and am more laid back. It turned out she was only visiting Manchester, and was at uni in Huddersfield. We chat about both places for a minute or so. I then tell her I love her hair, and it suits her face. She starts to edge away towards the shop she was about to enter, and I let her go giving her another handshake, but holding on a little more to show her I like her.

Perhaps I should have pushed through the pain barrier more, but she was only here for the day… it could have been good practice though! This is becoming addictive now.

26th July

I'm out in the city centre because it's sunny and there are definatley going to be girls out shopping!

Girl 1: Walking from Piccadilly Gardens towards the bus station. She rests on a bollard.

Me: Excuse I just saw you walking past me before and I wanted to come over and tell you I think you're beautiful
Her: Oh thanks (smiling)

I ask her name, she tells me, and then quickly goes on to tell me she has a boyfriend. I chat for a bit more, then leave her to it, 'enjoy the rest of your day in the sun'.

Girl 2: I'm in Specsavers picking up a prescription of contact lenses. Next to me is stood this pretty Japanese girl. I want to approach her, but it would be too awkward for her I imagined with the shopfloor listening. I left the shop, hovered outside for a bit, then I see her come out. She is walking fast so I have to chase her a bit!

Me: Excuse me, I just saw you in Specsavers before and wanted to tell you I think you're beautiful.
Her: oooh thanks, that's a nice suprise.
Me: I would have said something there but I thought it was probably a bit awkward as it was quiet in there!

I go on to chat to her for a good 7-8 mins. She asks me a fair few questions, and when I tell her I brewed some wine recently, she goes 'You'll have to show me how to make it'... BINGO!!

I go on to get her number, give her mine, then chat some more about what she's up to. She's off to Japan on business for 2 weeks, so hopefully gonna get her out for a date after that!

Girl 3: Saw a hot Filipino girl head into a clothes shop, hung around outside for a bit til she reappeared. I tried to open her as per the same line, but she ran off saying she had to go to work. Haha!

Girl 4: Was about to head off when I clocked a cute Chinese girl at a makeup stand outside a shop. The owner of the stall was dealing with some customers whilst she was stood there watching. I went over.

Me: Hey, what's this you're selling
Her: makeup, etc...
Me: Anyway, that's not the reason I came over. I saw you from over there and wanted to come and meet you, what's your name.

We chat for a bit about what's she's up to in Manchester, she asked quite a few questions about me, where I'm from etc. She was on a trial shift so I joked about me getting her in trouble with the boss as I was chatting her up. After 5 mins of chat I tell her we should go for a drink. She tells me she doesn't drink. I ignore this and tell her about my colleague from Hong Kong who can't drink. We chat some more, then I tell her I'm gonna go, but want her number. She ignores this and talks about something else... SO I chat some more. Finally I ask again and she gives me her Facebook. Hehe, perseverance paid off.

Good day's work, I'm now beginning to ignore some of the potentially bad signs like girl not smiling, or brushing me off. It probably all went better as I was feeling a lot more confident about my conversation skills, i.e. nice and laid back telling a few stories, and letting them tell me stuff. Getting into a nice flow now.

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29th July

OK then. Sunday, sunny, just shaking off a hangover, might as well head into town for a wander round the streets.

Girl 1: Walking along Market Street, clock a nice slim Chinese girl.

Me: Excuse me

She legs it! Think I was a little too timid with this, approaching a little too much from behind her. Made me think I should try to approach them more head on. I head into the Arndale.

Girl 2: I see a lovely Cantonese looking girl walking along texting away.

Me: Excuse me, I wanted to come over and tell you I think you’re beautiful.
Her: Oh thanks, that’s nice of you.
Me: What’s your name
Her: ***, but I need to tell you now I am married.
Me: I’m not surprised, he is a lucky man. See you!

Good to screen her out the equation and her reaction goes to show that she was under no illusions as to my intentions. Bonus.

Girl 3: What looks like a Thai girl (nice dark skin) comes into view, she walks past me, I turn around in pursuit.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you walking past me just then, and wanted to tell you I think you’re beautiful.
Her: Oh, really?

So yeah, usual drill ask her name, chat about what she’s doing. She’s at Bolton uni and visiting Manchester for the wkd. She’s actually Vietnamese, so we talk about the differences in culture, etc. She is really enjoying all this, and keeps giggling. She’s very flirty and tells me she is shy holding her cheeks to hide the blushes. I take the opportunity to caress her cheeks.
After about 5-6 mins of chatting, flirting, physical contact, and both of us generally having an awesome time, I tell her we should go grab a drink to carry on the fun. Insta-date!!

We head out of the mall and I take her to the nearest decent venue. We end up at All Bar One. We grab a couple of beers and I lead her to a nice couch chair in the window (great for turning up the heat on the physical contact). I tell her about the architecture outside the window and get her to tell me about Bolton and Vietnam. I have my arm around her and play with her hair. She seems great with this, and I ramp it up more telling her she has gorgeous hair. Again she’s blushing away and I touch her cheeks. As we chat and joke around, I can’t help but start touching her leg. She tells me not to do as in Vietnam this is not the done thing. Fair play, but this doesn’t stop me doing it from time to time, and holding her hand etc.

We hang out in there a good 30-40 mins, and can see she wants to get back to what she came to town for, shopping. So I tell her I’ve gotta go and walk her back to the shopping area. I tell her it would be great to see her again as she’s a lot of fun. Maybe I’ll go up to Bolton, or show her some of the hidden sites in Manchester. We exchange numbers, I try to hug her, again personal/cultural boundaries are too much, so I tell her we can shake hands instead. I take her hand and kiss it. She shreaks laughing and runs off into the shop. Nice.

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I enjoy reading about your daygame experiences. I noticed that you usually go after asian women, or you atleast get good reactions from them. But tell me, when dealing with rejection such as the girl saying "No it's ok" and the same thing happen right away again, does that throw you off? Or does it make you want to open more until you get the reaction you set out for? When this happened to me, it threw me off and made me stop for the day. Or what I'd like to know is, how do you deal with rejections?

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Keep it up, I'm starting my day game stuff today, haven't done it before, my usual game is night clubs/bars had some good success already, but the girls here are not that great so thought I would try something different.

Also, I'm not far from you, just down in Stoke On Trent, Ive been thinking about heading to Manchester for a day and night game as theres a better pool of women and its only a 40 min drive from me, maybe we can meet up one day and sarge/wingman each other?

A bit of both to be honest. Sometimes I just laugh and carry on, sometimes I feel a bit annoyed, but generally I do not allow this to deter me now. I'd rather get 10 brush offs from trying than go home feeling like a pussy. Just doing all this, however good or bad just makes me feel ALIVE!

Cool man, there's a few fellas in Manchester I know who get out gaming. Got a mate who's not into game at all, but he wants me to show him what I'm up to this wkd. Should be interesting!

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30th July
It's 6:30pm after finishing work, and I'm itching to get back into town for more day game action!

Girl 1: Thai girl strutting along in a leather jacket & tight jeans with killer legs.

Me: I saw you walk past and wanted to tell you I really like your style. It's really glamorous.
Her: Ok, thanks.
Me: What's your name.
Her: ***, I have to go to meet my friend.

Yeah, heard that one before haha! She walks off, I didn't try and stop her. She was smiling a little, I think if I'd chased her a bit more I may have had a chance.

Girl 2: Geeky Chinese girl, very nice looking. I approach her walking along side her.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you walk past me back there, and wanted to come and tell you I think you're beautiful.

Her: No

... and she walks off! She wasn't impressed ha!

I wander if I should now try and stop them in their tracks more, i.e. walk around them head on. Some of them are escaping too easily!!

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3rd August

Phew. Heavy day of day game today.

Girl 1: Looked like a Japanese girl walking into Primark. I followed her and collared her looking at dresses.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you outside and wanted to come and say hi as I think you look really nice.
Her: Oh. Thanks

I take her hand while getting her name, we chat about her shopping, I ask her if she’s at uni here in England, I tell her I’m at Manchester. The she tells me she is at Durham. I tell her that’s a shame as I would have loved to taken her out. She looks genuinely happy and thanks me again as I walk off. Sweet girl.

Girl 2: Chinese girl in Aldi wearing a lovely summering dress and cool shoes. I want to tell her.

Me: Excuse me I saw you walking past before and had to tell you that you have a really nice style. Do you work in fashion or something?
She is not overly receptive, but I plough on. After 3 mins of conversation she is making excuses about getting her bus. I tell her it would be nice to see her and hang out for a coffee. I get her number. We chat for another minute or so, I exit. Not sure much is gonna come of this, she didn’t seem too bothered.

Girl 3: Cool looking girl walks in Poundland.

Me: excuse me, I saw you outside and had to come and meet you. I love you style, you boots are awesome.

She likes this and is smiling away. I ask her if she is at uni. She tells me she about to start uni. I think she must be a tad too young, and let her slide away into the depths of the shop as I exit.

Girl 4: Saw a group of Asian girls in card shop, one looked amazing. Awesome clothes.

Me: excuse me, I really love what your wearing.

She has a blank look on her face. I then turn to her friend and say, ‘doesn’t she have great style?’

Her friend frowns and says no. I wonder if they knew what the hell I was going on about! haha!

Girl 5: In Boots I see this Malaysian girl

Me: Excuse me, I had to come over and tell you that you keep catching my eye. You have a nice style about you.

She is receptive and we chat about work, Malaysia, the weather,etc. After around 3 mins she tells me she needs to go. I tell her it would be nice to get to know her a bit more as she seems like fun. She claims she has no phone on her, but she will take my number on a piece of paper. We chat some more and then she reveals she has a husband!! I joke that there’s me giving her my number when she’s married. She says it would be nice to hang out anyway, and promises to text me. We shall see (maybe she has some hot mates).

Girl 6: Girl walking along the street. Opened as per the day’s offering. She frowned and muttered something as she walked off.

Girl 7: On the same street. Opened as per, she stopped and looked confused. She said no and walked off.

Girl 8: Girl in Aldi. Opened as per, she wasn’t happy and said she didn’t want to entertain anyone today.

Final thoughts. The opener I ran with today was less direct, and there was far too much room for inauthenticity. By the last few girls I was just rolling the opener out and not really meaning it. No wonder they walked away or frowned. Of course, they could have all had their own issues, or maybe it was the way I was dressed hey. Regardless, I can see the flaws in my behaviour. There was not enough passion from me, although by the end I was pretty knackered and thirsty!

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