It ultimately comes down to change who you are. I know all the people here don't want to admit this, but it's the truth of the matter. Now, who are you? We are all just the sum of our interests, goals, aspirations, actions, reactions, thoughts, behaviors, etc. Despite having many diverse visual components, your thoughts/reactions will guide a lot of what is important in PUA. Getting a better grasp of these things will allow you to be honest. A lot of these "honest" (and successful) feelings/statements come with the experience of success with women. To get there, you will likely have to act i.e. keep yourself and insecurities from screwing things up. But you can read 90% of the threads in the relationship section to see what happens when you act to get girls, without also trying to fix those thoughts/reactions.

I think anyone who engages in a challenging activity, such as improving their ability to socialize, is going to change (sometimes for the worse, sometimes better). Our experiences mold who we are. Once you are in a different circumstance with a different set of experiences, you won't view things the same anymore.