Hello forum!
I am a 22 year old danish guy who has been AFC all my life, just until recently. At the moment I am doing an exchange in my studies in Melbourne, Australia. I am doing this on my own, this means heading half way round the world on your own and staying there for 6 months. This has evolved me as a person immensely, and it is definetely the best thing I have ever done in my life.
I was in Sydney for a couple of days and had a great time. What happened here would trigger my urge to become a PUA. During the last 2 years my confidence has received a huge boost, partly because of succes in my course but also because of succes in the gym (a lean body).
One night in Sydney I was hanging out with two danish girls that I had met the day before. These girls where extremely beautiful HB8-10 both of them, we bonded quite well since we were the only danes in the area. I realised that I wanted to see if I could get one of them home with me, but I had no idea how. We had allot to drink and I was feeling really comfortable with these girls. As it turned out the girls where the hottest girls in the club and they knew it. Every single AFC (and possibly PUA's) was trying to get their attention, but they rejected every single offer. I was the only one they were talking and dancing with. Guys start to approach me and ask how I'm doing it, since they think I'm hooking up with them both. At this point I knew that I was in the friend zone and nothing was going to happen and I was frustrated. But every single guy in the room was looking up to me, which was a serious confidence boost. Someone waved me onto a small stage at the dancefloor, as I got up there the girls gets really excited and starts to encourage me to do some "sexy moves". A guy standing next to me as copying my moves.. Out of no where he grabs my shirt (which has buttons that easily opens cause you just click them together) and opens it up all the way, exposing my torso. I instantly flex and the girls (and guys) go crazy, and high fives are given to me from all the guys.. (That said I am nothing special when it comes to bodybuilding, I'm just a bit more defined than the average man)
The club closed and we went to get something to eat and as predicted they said goodbye and went back to their place, and I had to head back to Melbourne the next day so I didn't get to see them again.
Coming back to Melbourne I was REALLY frustrated, I had all the chances to do something but I didn't know how to perform.
I came to think of this book the game and decided to read it. I was mesmerized, this had the answers to all of my questions!. I read the book in 2-3 days, and immidiatly started practicing.
Since then (which is around 1½ month ago) I have K-closed 3 girls and almost had number 4 as well. This boosted my confidence and made me understand what to do when you are interacting with a girl in a club. I am still a newbie and I still have some form of approach anxiety - but I work on it every time I go out. If I see a set that I like I will kick my self later if I don't approach. So at the moment I am just training, approaching. My biggest problem at the moment is to escalate kino, I find it hard to initiate the first touches. I have had problem with ASD as well, which is something I really want to master.
Hope you guys will let me into your community, because I am keen to become the PUA that I have never been. I have always been jealous on the guys that are just naturally good at picking up girls - and now I feel that it is my time to shine and I want to become better and get even more girls than them (motherfuckers!!)!!
CHAT