Me and this girl were really close friends for a long time and regularly spoke on SPAM and msn and text. We met once in real life and had a really good time and she did mean alot to me and I do still have feelings for her. We have had some major problems in our relationship. But she has even done alot of dirty talk with me and involved herself sexually with me online. But she finds it hard to trust me due to our recent issues. She has blocked me on SPAM and doesn't really come online on msn much anymore. She told me that shes gradually starting to quit the internet. She is getting a new phone number soon so that means if she leaves I won't be able to contact her at all ever again unless she comes back but my question is.
She noticed that i was flirting with other girls last night and she was deeply offended by that and claimed i was a player. Me and this girl are not exclusively dating and i said to her how she didnt care about me and that was obvious within her actions. She told me that it wasnt but i insisted it was. Because that's how it legitmately
This girl was in love with me and I did mean alot to her but I kept making problems in the relationship and she found it hard to trust me. I do still mean alot to her but she just needs time to think over things and get herself together. She doubts the true ways I feel about her and sadly we live long distance so we do not have contact outside of the online world and texting.
Today she texted me saying..
" If how you felt was true, you wouldn't have acted the way you did. Slowly forget about me. That's probably what you want anyways. "
" You've hurt me so many times :/ "
" And how do I know this time wont just be a next time? :/ "
" That's just words to me. How do i know u mean it? "
I texted her again, Apologizing and pleading with her to try and allow her to see that she does mean alot to me and I don't under value her.
I made the accustation that she didn't care about me and she didnt love me and she said when I insisted that, it sort of made her feel like that's the way I wanted her to feel.
So I did reply to her last text message which was 3 hours ago now. And she did not reply to me.
What do I do guys?
Does she need time?

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Alex, Pimp in training.

Yes. I was flirting with other girls but me and this girl are not "officaly" dating, we are not exclusive. But she has been ignoring my texts for a while now.
Whats ur advice?

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Alex, Pimp in training.

You've only met this girl once in real life and you're in a relationship with her? This is way too much drama for such a relationship.

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Online chatting/texting can be fun, especially with an uninhibited girl...but 'relationships' should be saved for women you can be with physically. It does not make any sense to get your panties twisted over a girl you never see.

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