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| yellowcab | PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:45 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Fri Mar 23, 2012 11:12 am Posts: 46 | | burp
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| Heywood Jablowme | PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2012 1:53 pm | |
| Offline | | King Among Mortals |  | Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm Posts: 7592 Location: United States | | Stop text, hang out with hot chicks, go have fun with male friends and check out hot chicks. put it out of your mind, or you will blow it! _________________ They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.
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| Wolfwoodd | PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:24 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2011 3:38 pm Posts: 752 Location: Sarasota, FL | | Logistically, this relationship is pretty much doomed. It's rare for monogamous LTR's to be able to hold up in a long distance situation, especially when you're in your early 20's.
The BEST thing you can do right now is to be learn to be OKAY with this situation. Enjoy it for what it is, but realize that it's not going to last. She WILL eventually sleep with another guy (maybe at school, maybe in the US). She's young. You can always turn it around again and date her in the future.. probably the next time you end up living in the same city. However, if you get angry or cry to her or do something stupid now, then you will absolutely kill any chance of starting up this relationship again later.
Right now you need to mentally prepare yourself. Develop a social life that doesn't revolve around her. Get some cute female friends. Learn to live in the moment and stop dwelling on things you have no power to change.
-Wolf
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| Sly_Wolf | PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:51 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:07 am Posts: 261 Location: Toronto | | You need to think about the future and see if a long distance relationship could work, which it usually doesnt. You've lost the power in the relationship thats why you dont feel alpha anymore and I'm sure a part of you feels betrayed cause you thought she felt the same way and yet you don't understand why she doesnt put as much effort.
She is still young, doesnt have a strong will and is a bit immature, thats why she has a hard time saying no. Her friends might also be influencing her to go out and get over you. Either way, if you realize that it won't work out due to logistics, then you should meet other women.
Even if you don't want to "cheat" at least get some numbers, game them and hve your options open. Your girl already made out with someone else if not more so do whatever is best for you. She is obviously looking after herself first.
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