Hey guys.

I want to start off pointing out that I have confidence and that I'm a good looking guy, and I can talk girls easily.. Ive just came home from the military, and I was flirting with nearly 3 girls. When we was in the woods, I touched one of the girls in her thighs, and she said "Is it going to be a threesome tonight? I said with chill "We only have 2 minutes to do it in so I don't know. I said that because the military told us that we only have 2 minutes to sleep in. But although she showed me some sexual tension.. I couldn't keep the talk going...

The only problem I have, in my whole entire life is to show my sexual side.

By this I mean, how can I talk sexual? How can I make the girl think that I'm sexually attractive? I don't know how to talk sexual, specially when I go parties. I'm 100% direct. I think indirect is bullshit and a waste of time..

I need to learn how to create a sexual tension, through in real life, and msn or facebook. I really need help with this.. I'm currently reading a book called "Badboy Lifestyle" And its the best book I ever read. I'm still reading it. And its learning me plenty of good advices.

But I need some advices from you guys.. What do you start off with when it comes to creating a sexual tension? How can you build a fully sexual rapport and get her to have sex with me?.

Hope you can help me guys.

I have read that a deep voice helps building sexual tension. By this I mean that once you are in the comfort or rapport stage, you talk with a deep voice that comes from your diaphragm, which will make your stomach or chest vibrate. You could practice that. Also kino escalate in a sexual way, 1 step back 2 steps forward, as the mystery method says (I think maybe I am wrong with the reference). Check out the Escalation Ladder by Vin Dicarlo, it is free on internet.

But I don't even know what to open with, I don't know what to say....

Israeli, aren't you?

Arabian..

Close enough Cheers from Israel

Are you having the same problem like me? Creating sexual tension seem to be hard for me..

Yeah man same here. Like they said read the Vin Dicarlo Escalation Ladder, it helps a lot.

Kino escalation is a big one, but don't escalate too quickly... Take your time and tease her a little - make her feel like you want her, but not so badly that you will do anything - that reeks of desperation and is a major turn off.

At the beginning of my relationship with my ex, he used to hold me a little at arm's length, whilst still makiing me aware that he wanted me and that ONE day, we would get together. It made me crazy with desire for him. I would think to myself "why is he not making a move?!" and then just when I thought I couldn't hold out any longer, he made his move and we had an amazing four year relationship following that!

Good luck buddy

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"Openers" and verbal game will not create sexual tension, it's created mostly through non-verbal communication. Check out 60years of challenge, his stuff is all about sexual tension. Here's a good post of his:

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Good one, but I just don't understand it 100%..

His point is to not break the tension? But what if you go up to a girl and present ur self and she present her self.. What to do after?? the tension would already been broken from there?

What do you mean by "present yourself"?

How to create sexual tension? When you talk, talk slow, eye contact, use a lot of pauses, "the triangle" which means when you talk watch continually her eyes and lips; that's all ST. You can also use the Yes-Q ladder, either ask or make statements with which she agrees or says yes. Use kino (hair stroke, or hand on her back). Gambler had an awesome video about that.

Do you have a link to it? I want to see it. And when I said present then I meant introduce..

Nah what you would do then is continue to build it non-verbally, as in get close to her, give strong eye contact, all the stuff hawke91 mentioned above. The tension breaks when you start talking a lot, cracking jokes, trying to be entertaining and social (basically everything mainstream pick-up teaches you to do breaks tension rather than creates it, which is a bad thing). It also breaks when you start making out with her or fuck her. That's why you should keep the tension until you get her to a private place, you want the first kiss to lead to clothes flying off and you both fucking eachothers brains out.