Oh fuck!!! let him answer at least,and if he doesnt that´s his business

i really appreciate it,i agree with that,i´ve stopped trying with her 4 years ago that´s just an ancient story,i wrote it for the lulz,but u´ve proven ur not a complete bshitter,but dont get me wrong im no expert at all nor i had plenty experience with womans

Yo sexaddict that is one of the best "friendship zone" advise i have ever seen! dude i want your take on online game, specially pof, for me is too slow, but i want to hear, your take, strategy... thanks dude!

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Lol dude you tweak.

Have you used vicpark's tutorial on POF yet? It seems pretty solid. I think you've got nothing to lose by using that unless of course your ultimate goal is not to lay.

It would be great if you could put this:
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"I am a 38 year old man"

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"I am not a retard."

All in one post.

Thanks.

Hey dude, I am imagining you are having issues with online game as you are a natural and most of your game depends on your physical presence. You use your dancing and your natural energy to do your talking. Online is an entire different entity.

The only thing that seems to remain the same between online and real life is: The hot chicks get hit on a lot or in online terms " a shit load of messages"

It's important to keep that in mind when creating a profile. Just like in real life, women want men that are not the same as anyone else. They want the "stand out" someone that is different.

Profile:

Your profile must give the readers an idea of your character while at the same time being a little mysterious. The biggest mistake men make with an online profile, is lack of effort. They make quick and simple profiles. ( in real life a couple of words may work as you count on your looks and energy to get a women's interest. Online you have to use your words to draw attraction, to paint a picture.

Things like being cocky, or manly do not work so well online. ( it's not backed up by a physical presence and has no value) When creating a profile keep in mind that all you have is your words and a photo. Never try to show your financial status or social proof through photo's. It just looks like one is trying too hard. I hear women all the time online saying, I hate when men have photo's of no shirt on or photo's of them in front of their car, etc etc.

Put it this way, your online profile is basically like an approach where she is not interacting with you, just basically listening to what you have to say. You have a few minutes to convince this woman that you are what she wants.

In my experience, i found the more passion and sincerity you can put in your profile, the better it is received. " this is one avenue where "cheese" actually works.

It is important to have at least one photo. Too many photo's is over kill and leaves no mystery. Ideally you want to have a conversation started and you want the woman to be intrigued enough by you, to want to see more photo's.

Women online are much more in a fantasy mode, it's not as real to them as someone approaching. With that in mind, it's in your best interest to make yourself a sort of fantasy to them.

In your case, I would emphasis your Latin background and your love for dance. (As you already know women love a man that can dance). If you are good at cooking, this is a definite bonus as well. Also it is important to show a fun side, while still being able to give them a sense that they would be safe and comfortable around you.

Expressing a passion of yours is always good too. It's also important to show a passionate/romantic side ( even if you are only trying to get laid) It's all about the initial draw. You want them to message you or to read your profile and return your initial message. Remember! the profile is just an attempt to get your foot in the door, just like an approach in a club. The more unique and intriguing you can make your profile, the better chance you have of creating initial interest.
If you are a bad boy, show a little bit of it but NOT TOO MUCH

A famous quote that you like is a great idea for an end line in a profile.

Messaging:

This is where a lot of men make there biggest mistakes, keep in mind that the attractive women online are getting hundreds of messages every day. The biggest complaint I have heard from women in regards to messages are that they are too short and simple. or things like " hey whats up" or "Hey you're hot" etc etc. Women will not reply to any such messages. It's important to take your time when writing a message to a woman, show that you actually read her profile and are not just messaging her cuz she is hot. The more you can reference her profile in your message the better. ( it shows you actually read it all and your interest is not purely physical)

Do not show any sexual aggression or sexuality in your initial message, save that for later. ( once the back and forth starts) It is important to give them a sense of your personality and a friendly side. If you can show your wit and humor in your message, all the better. Because online game does not have the same lure that a physical presence does, it is important to make all that you type straight forward and easy to interpret. You don't want to be misunderstood or taken the wrong way. Women online can discard you in a second, and never answer another message from you again. So it's important to be clear in what you write.
Always end your initial message with a question, in fact all your messages should end in a question ( it gives them a sense of obligation to reply).

In summary:

Profile

Make your profile stand out.
Highlight your skills.
Show your sweet side.
Keep some mystery ( one nice photo, if she's interested, she'll ask for more)
Create a sense of comfort and friendliness.
Show a bit of an edge, but not too much.
Take your time and make a well written profile ( women appreciate it)
Be unique and different then the rest.

Messaging

Make it count, first one is the first impression she will get.
Put effort into it, don't make it short and simple.
Be funny and sweet
Never start off with sexuality
Always end with a question.
Refer to part of her profile, closer to the end the better( show's you read it all)

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Lol.....where are u from kasabi?

Your advice in an earlier post about creating an online profile has helped me a lot. Something as simple as saying 'mystery' has changed my profile from getting zero contacts in a week to 8 fat/average chicks in 2days contacting me. Which means what I've written is attracting women cheers bro never really understood online until now!

PS I'm not into fat chicks was just a point i was making lol

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I hear ya bro, I get tons of fats chick messages too. lol. would say it's about an 80/20 fat/hot. The hot chicks don't need to message anyone. They are getting 100 messages a day.

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Hey great topic, I have a question.

I have been texting with this girl for some time now (we've met eachother 3 times and kissed each time, nothing more) but sometimes I get the feeling it's going nowhere, I need to make it more sexual.

I know the point of texting is setting up a meeting but due to circumstances we won't get to see eachother for another month atleast.

So my question: Do you have any tips on how I can get more sexual with her through texts? We didn't have any kind of sexual texts yet.

Thanks in advance!

Start a gradual sexual conversation. Start it off friendly, Then as you go, add in some questions.

What is important! is her responses. By starting off subtle, it will allow you to gauge where she is at.

A sexual conversation can escalate very fast, but it can also be shut down just as fast. So it is important to see where she stands, and how much she is willing to talk about.

Since you have already spend time with her, it should not be difficult to get her going.

Start off with comments about what has already happened. ( the kissing) Ask her what her favorite spot on her body is to get kissed and why?

If she replies with a fun and intrigued response, then you escalate.

start off PG rating, but observe how much interest she is showing in her responses.
If you are getting good responses, then keep escalating. ( in my experience 9/10 women will be more then willing to get into dirty talk.


Ask questions like these: (escalating)

What turns you on about men? What physical feature?
What type of clothing do you feel sexiest in?
How spontaneous are you out of 1-10? (if it is flowing, you can get more bold)
Pause then ask, if she minds you asking a personal question. ( if she says sure)
Then start to be more bold.
What do you rate your sexuality from 1-10 ( if she replies with anything over 8 It is usually a sign that she is into dirty talk, 11 is an awesome response)
How much time is enough foreplay?
What's her favorite position?
Is she shaved/ or trimmed?
Does she like to give/recieve oral.

Tell her what you find sexy about her, show her that you think of her sexually with your words.

1-10 questions are a great way to get a woman to open up, they allow an immediate response from a woman with a # value. Immediate responses are more commonly an unconscious action therefor a ( for the most part) true response.

1-10 How naughty do you consider yourself......etc etc



If it is all still flowing at this point, usually she will be asking you questions to.
Start to get right into, but let her dictate how far it will go.

These conversations can go far, but it's important that you react based on her reactions. If her responses become slower with less interest, go back to the level where she was showing interest and stay there. NEVER keep escalating past the point she wants to go ( it can turn a girl off fast)

If she asks where all these questions are coming from, just tell her you have been thinking about her. And that you find her to be SOOOO sexy and you couldn't help but ask her these questions.

Tell her you visualize her all the time and would love some help to see her better in your mind.

I have been so bold as to tell tons and tons of women, that I actually have had a fantasy about them ( most women will love to hear this and will ask you to elaborate< if this happens, make something up that involves her being naughty and sexy to you, be detailed. If she's into you she will show it from her response) I tend to act a little embarrassed and wait for them to ask me repeatedly to tell them. Then i will say ok, but promise not to laugh at it ok.



I don't want to give you too many things to say, it is important that you go with her flow, so let your natural questions come out. But don't be afraid to be bold.

Start off slow, somewhat romantic and passionate questions, then escalate, let her decide how far it will go, but don't shy away, keep it up strong. She will stop it if she gets uncomfortable.

You will be presently surprised, at just how much she will open up. Like i said 90% of women( if interested in you) will go all in with sexual talk, its just a matter going at her pace.


If you do find that you need some more specific questions to ask her, write me back and I'll give you some more stuff to throw at her.


Good luck my friend

Be bold! don't be afraid to ask anything, just remember! you must build up to it. Keep it at her pace.

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^ good advice

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Oh wow, it took me a while to read all this. First of all, you haters are really annoying me. Just go away and give yourself a nice bit of mental masturbation.

Secondly sex addict I have a question for you, I am currently in a relationship with a girl that in my eyes is a 9,5 and I am pretty happy how it is going. The sex is great and everything else is going good as well. But I have to say I miss the chase, going out trying to get girls. So I was thinking about going out every now and than with my mates to meet girls and flirt with them etc. it will keep me satisfied but also should we split up I will have plenty of girls to go back to. Now I am pretty sure that she will hear about it if I go around talking to tons of girls. What should I do, to avoid her getting worked up about it?