So long story short I dated this girl for 3 years, like 6 months ago I broke up with her for unrelated reasons. She tried to get me back for like 5 months, I slept with her a few times for some easy pussy when she threw herself at me but never entertained the idea of getting back together.

So once she realized I wasnt taking her back, she got real personal and just tried to hurt my feelings. The only thing that actually made me mad was she told me that she cheated on me with one of my good friends (at the time) like a year and a half ago. I trusted her and I was faithful the whole time, but apparently she cheated on me and it pisses me off. Even more so that it was with one of my friends that I trusted. I asked him about it, he told me it was true and a bunch of other shit about how she lied and told him me and her broke up, got real hammered and he didnt even remember it happened until she told him..

But whatever, obviously i told him to fuck off and we wont be talking any more. I only needed to talk to him to confirm that it was true. Now that I know it is, I really, REALLY want to try to hurt my ex. She gave me SO much shit ALL the time about how I didnt try, when in reality she was just a stupid slut building a relationship on lies and being a whore.

So I am considering texting her this:

hey whats up? so i have spent some time with my phone records these last couple days, compiling this list of the exact dates and times you sent me texts in which you admit to some interesting things.. including but not limited to: smoking weed, drinking and driving, stealing from your parents, taking acid, taking shrooms, doing coke, being on xanax when you crashed your sable, abusing vicodin, abusing and selling your adderall (which im showing to your doctor too so kiss that script buh bye).. the list goes on. i hope your family knows about all that, cause as soon as im done theyre gonna find out. it's right on my phone records, so have fun trying to convince anyone that its a bunch of bs lol. your the worst kind of liar x, a disgusting cheater whore drug addict. i knew you were a huge slut when i fucked you the first time i met you, yet i trusted you anyway and you betrayed me. so im done helping you hide. its time for you to have no option but to be honest with everyone about what kind of person you are. fuck you slut have a good night


So what do you think, should I send it? I feel like i want to humiliate her, crush her feelings and ruin her life. i havent even STARTED to think about what i'm going to do with these 15 naked pictures i have of her, or the video of me fucking her in the ass and then cumming on her face.. But whatever i do with them, it will be fitting for the disgusting slut that she is. Can I get in trouble for this? We are both over 18 obviously, and i really want to hang it over her head.

Thanks for any insight

Damn, man chill out and breath a few times deeply. She cheated on you more than a year ago. I do not know the legal situation in your country but here where I come from you can get in real trouble for publishing naked pictures and videos of you fucking her without her agreement. Your ego is hurt now you know she cheated on you. Ok then just walk to her and say her in the face that she is a dirty slut but do not get all worked up about destroying her. It is not worth the trouble you get and the trouble you make yourself.

Meh. I'm chill. If I found out about it while we were together I woulda be more pissed, but I am long over her and balls deep in plenty of women at this point, and I am not really very actively upset about the situation in the way you'd expect. I just think that I helped her hide all of that stuff from EVERYONE, her family her friends everyone, and live a lie that she was this good person. But now that I found out she lied to me and cheated on me, I think she deserves to have to come clean to everyone she's been lying to about what a terrible person she is. Fuckin slut. It's not like I'm sitting here all physically worked up like throwing shit around, this wasn't even today I found out like 2 weeks ago. But no matter what, she should get what she deserves. That's the worst thing you can do to someone, so fuck her. Karmas a bitch

You know what - forget about it. I didn't care up until now and I don't really know why I started. She's just a stupid slut and i am happy I'm not in a relationship with her any more.

I just talked to the friend she slept with a couple hours ago and he admitted it was true, and iv been pretty pissed ever since. But I'm already starting to settle down and realize that i'm done with her and it doesn't matter. I'm glad I didnt send her that text, I'm better then that and i'm better then her.

Thanks for helping snap me out of it

don't say a word

just mail the texts to her father

but wait...

the best revenge is a dish served cold

wait years, if need be, until she is engaged to be married,

then have them delivered to her fiancee

the day before the wedding

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get back with her and then on christmas or her birthday give her a compilation video of you fucking other women whilst youve been with her.

or ,you know, just be cool about it.

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Hahahah that made me chuckle!

Dont forget to be awesome man. Rise above it, get over her. well done so far . If you go straight to her face about it, its just going to cause confrontation.

So instead, just slowly leak these fun facts to her nearest and dearest over a period of time Ive been where you are and i did exactly that.


peace

I decided to just forget it, I was only pissed for a couple hours. Forgot to post it here though. Thanks for the advice everyone

lol. this is MEAN

This board isn't about revenge. You're hurt, go lick your wounds in private.

Yeah dude don't get back at her that's really immature. Since I'm pretty evil and immature I would try to sleep with her friend, sister or mom. I also like the video idea. Get with like ten girls, tape that shit. Edit it, add some music, sound affects, slows, ect...

Also sleep with your friend's mom/sister/cousin.

Let's imagine for a second that you didn't know that she cheated and continued to be with her. I would say it's a good thing she told you now instead of ten years down the road when u guys are married or have kids. Also this friend of yours is obviously a sleeze. Don't think of it as you lost a friend, more like you have got rid of a backstabber from your life.

you don't need to revenge but you need to forget and forgive.

if my gf ever did that to me i would post all of the naked pictures that i had of her on the internet and say i got hacked. but, then again, my morals are lagging a little bit. and i would be too emotionally charged to be able to do anything rational.