Hey guys,

when I finished reading The Game in the beginning of 2010 I was very motivated and eager to learn. Since then I got many rejections, AMOGs, flakes and at the moment I don't even believe in succeeding Therefore I don't approach much. If I do, I usually fail (I know - the self-fulfilling prophecy). On conscious level I know I have nothing to loose, that with every approach I can only get a chance to start relatonship with a great girl, but somehow I am now conditioned with all the rejections and feel even worse about myself than before pickup.

I am a small guy 5'6", almost 25 years old, but I dress well and have generally ambitious life (finishing my masters, having a lot of friends, going to gym and training thaibox). I supposed that if I have my life sorted, the self-esteem / inner game will come as a by-product. Obviously it does not. I want to do daygame, but I simply cannot start and get the business done. My feeling of inadequacy is emphasized with all the situations I faced in my pickup career and only little success.

I try to stay optimistic, but I welcome all your ideas how to get back on the right track. Thank you in advance

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