So I'm drinking at my boys house. I get there and we run the beer pong table. I run it with 2 different partners and I'm getting along with everyone there. All older guys all really cool. Lots of AFC behavior and weak game. Lots of other girls though. I'm handling this party well and mixing great with everyone. Lead the men and you lead the women. When my target gets there, whos on tv (HB8.5), I start spitting (3 second rule baby). I already met her and act like I dont remember her. Get to talking, she is from the dirty south I neg her for not having an accent anymore saying it would up her hot points. I neg her choice of bedtime snack (plain yogurt and cinnmon) and suggest a place we should go for better dessert. She goes outside to have a cig w/ friends I tell her that its a gross habit and shes losing hot points by the minute. She negs back that I'm blazing the dank. We argue over which is more gross. I get some light kino started. She goes to bed after about a good 45 minutes of convo and comfort building and kino pinging cuz she worked a double and I bust her balls for not hanging out more. I crash there and when I wake up I talk to her for a bit. She tells me that I have to come over more often and hang out. So I'd say I have my in and that I'll escalate the fuck out of it.

If I get the kino escalation going for next visit (maybe tonight) it will be game on until I'm hearing my name yelled by a southern belle. And shes cooler than she is hot which is a total plus in my book cuz she'll be down for some fun stuff if I do get her to the dating point. I'm not down for boring females. Feedback?

Don't just assume you've got everything under wraps with this girl I see you made no statement of intent to her..she maybe appear to be diggin you but is she really digging you if you know what i mean. best to let her know whats up real soon

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point well taken. suggestions on ways to do that without making her run for the hills? Cuz apparently she likes competition with other girls. So i'm gonna have to DHV myself hard with her. And interest on my part will make her think shes won. So I dont want to fuck that up

LOL she's not going to run for the hills. Although you would have been in a much better position if you just pull the trigger(kissed her) the 1st night. The signs were clear as day to make your move from what I'm reading.
Well heres what you need to do provided you can get her in your house again.
Warm her up with some talking like you've been doing some playful touching then make your move. She'll either accept or reject
but if you can get her over your house that's a huge step already your pretty much in just don't blow it by wasting too much time fluff talking
now go PULL THE TRIGGER haha

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While there is no excuse for not pulling a trigger I didnt feel a connection and in my personal philosophy its a DLV to wait too long to close it, but it wasn't like there were any good moments to close in the house party setting we were in. The time I spent talking to her, we were only partially isolated. I maybe had a good 15 minutes out of that 45 of alone time comfort building and kino pinging. I can't help that I'm a dominate beer pong player and the guy throwing the party and I ran that bitch for like 3 hours. My goal was to have a great night and lay some ground work with her. I accomplished both of my goals that night. I'll k-close this weekend. I need a pivot to help facilitate some jealousy. She gets competitive with other girls from what i've seen. Like gnarly competitive. Will walk up and just insult a chick in front of the dude type shit. I gotta bring that out and make her qualify herself.