| If she really wants you to travel 6 hours to come and visit her, and more importantly, visit her ALONE, not a bunch of friends, just the two of you, then I'd say she thinks you are a great friend AT THE VERY LEAST.
That you used to date, can be an obstacle, or a gift from the gods.
Girls can do a few things with their memories of you when you break up.
1) They can eliminate all the good ones and only grant attention to the bad ones, just to make theirselves feel better "Oh. Well it's better we broke up, because blah blah blah"
2) They can start missing your time together and eliminate the bad feelings, focussing on the good ones. Or they've had another boyfriend in the meantime that didn't fulfill her expectations and they can start longing back again.
3) They try to surpress the memories of your relationship altogether and pretend nothing ever happened.
If you really like her and feel like she's worth travelling 6 hours for, be it as a good friend,
then my advice is to go.
Don't get your expectations on getting together high, seeing she might have bad memories about your time together (you said it didn't quite work out).
If you see she IS interested, then sure go ahead and play her. You pulled it off in highschool with her, you can do it again.
If you would just want to go there, travelling 6 hours, to play her, I'd advice you not to go, there's game closer to home. _________________ She was hungry for da coq
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