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PostPosted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 12:44 am 
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I'm still a fan of my own creation:

PUA: People are starting to talk...

HB: About what?

PUA Options:
-Your body odor
-My name carved into your wrist
-My lock of hair you wear on your necklace
-Your decision to never wash your face after I touched it
-You telling people that we banged. I have standards ya know
-My good looks
-That terrorist running around using your name



i think you guys get the idea.

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Go for it man try it out. I love openers using my phone because it's a good prop cuzz girls love to talk, and you can flow into conversation easily from openers involving your phone. The opener... I just got this phone and need some help trying to figure out how this feature works for me pretty much every time. I transition into cocky funny with a neg, and work into a story to dhv. Time constraint is implied from the approach, and when you close to time bridge she already has your phone in her hand. It makes getting the number that much easier, and for me to f-close. The time bridge is critical, and this is for day game only. I also have a new glasses opener is you guys are interested in something that hooks girls in real well nobody uses! Also if she's really into the conversation and everything is going well you can find out her plans for the night if she's going out say," o your inviting me out." Then you should know where to take it, and if you don't PM me.


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Text:

You: Hey I had a dream about you

HB: OMG about what?

You: If I tell you I have to kill you

HB: LoL no really what

You: Just make up a story and start gaming her, the try to meet her somewhere to tell her about your dream.

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You: Hey I had a dream about you

HB: OMG about what?

You: If I tell you I have to kill you

HB: LoL no really what

You: Just make up a story and start gaming her, the try to meet her somewhere to tell her about your dream.
I like the last part but I think that saying you had a dream about her is too forward and it might creep her out, but this depends on how much comfort you've built. Maybe something like, "I saw something today that reminded me of you" and then following up with, "If I told you I'd have to kill you". One of the things I've noticed is that if you're not having an interesting conversation via texts she will lose interest fast and just stop texting- you can't really fluff like a normal conversation. So you have to grab her attention, which the second part definitely does.


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Hey, I was thinking of ways to set up a date and I was wondering if this would be a good way to do so via texts. This would be the opener/first thing you text her:

PUA: Hey, don't make any plans this Saturday.

Her: Why?

PUA: Because you're taking me out. I'll see you at x place at y time.

My main concern is that it is too forward and she might be like, "whoa slow down there, I haven't decided if I want to go yet". However, it does catch her off guard though and is a very alpha thing to say, so I'm on the fence; what do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:33 am 
If she is actually interested in you, you could do that. You're sure not gonna lose anything. At the worst, she'll say she's busy. Then you can figure out if that's a blow off or genuine.


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These are all great ideas, the first one I will be using tomorrow!! That stuff is great.... Come on guys you have to have some more good stuff for me to STEAL....

Thanks :-Þ


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After reading this last night, I tried it on this girl friend of my mine who Im trying to sarge...there is definately a big level of comfort with her, so I thought "what the heck, lets just try it...see what happens" It went like this...

ME: STOP!!!

HB: Stop what?

ME: Thinking about me...see your doing it...right...now

HB: Haha you wish

and that was that...I guess I forgot to put the "stop smiling" part in there...dont know how much of a difference that wouldve made...but ya, I gave it a shot, even though she didnt initiate more convo after I still thought it worth trying out...ill have to try it on some other girls I know as well to experiment more
About the "stop smiling" part. I think it is somewhat important to the txt.

By you telling her to stop smiling... and she reads it and starts smiling,
you've not only added an emotional response, you've added a physical
one that makes the text that much more real and true.

Opposed to just "STOP!!", I would be more inclined to use something
like, "Hey, STOP it!"


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Any feedback would be greatly appreciated! :D
Someone else on this forum wrote this once I think, well i read somewhere and love it. Make sure the girl has some interest in you an watch out, this had a hypnotic effect.

PUA: STOP!!!!

Her: What? or Huh? or Stop what?

PUA: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now

No matter what she says, say nothing after. Just leave it alone after that. Not only will she be thinking about you, but it is very alpha. You dont have to use that exactly, but it works great.

This Is GOLD GUYS.. TRY IT.

Here is my convo. I am going to meet this girl tonight so i did this to seal the deal.

Me: STOP!!!
HB: WHAT?
Me: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now
HB: Haha your so funny yet your doing it right now :)

I didnt text her back yet. I know i can by saying like " I know" that shows your alpha but also by not texting her back you show that you also know you are and make her THINK why you didnt text back. :wink:


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If you really want to start a convo, just say:

PUA: John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmit

This always gets a a laugh

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Hey, I was thinking of ways to set up a date and I was wondering if this would be a good way to do so via texts. This would be the opener/first thing you text her:

PUA: Hey, don't make any plans this Saturday.

Her: Why?

PUA: Because you're taking me out. I'll see you at x place at y time.

My main concern is that it is too forward and she might be like, "whoa slow down there, I haven't decided if I want to go yet". However, it does catch her off guard though and is a very alpha thing to say, so I'm on the fence; what do you guys think?
I used this and it totally opened. I'm meeting her this Saturday- boo-yah! I don't remember exactly what our conversation was- I delete all of my texts after a day because I'm paranoid - That and my friends read them to get shit on me...good times, good times...but I digress. Here's what I for sure remember:

Me: Hey, don't make any plans this weekend.

Her: Why?

Me: Because we're hanging out.

Her: O really?

Me: Yep. You're taking me out to play some mini golf, get some dinner and catch a movie.

Her: I haven't played putt putt in a long time

Me: Then this will be a good experience for you

And sha-bam! We had a date.
I have to admit though, I was scared shitless when I first sent this one.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:05 am 
Scared shitless eh? Don't you just love it when you get out of your box and realize something really works? lol.


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Crazy question, what is ya'll opinion on smiley's during text. I can never know if I should use them. Too girly/AFC or or they help break any tension during the conversation such as saying something cocky or a joke.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:40 pm 
Since the girls can't see your actual facial expressions, yes, smileys do help.


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Crazy question, what is ya'll opinion on smiley's during text. I can never know if I should use them. Too girly/AFC or or they help break any tension during the conversation such as saying something cocky or a joke.
I think that smileys are pretty lame. I'm a very sarcastic person and I find that people often lose the meaning of my words through text. But rather than employ a smiley I'm trying to improve my word usage and punctuation. Something about smileys screams "preteen girl" to me and that's not something a man should be displaying.

The issue arises where someone has just met you and is not used to your way of speaking or your sense of humor. If I'm telling a girl "you smell like shit" as a joke, I may want to make it more obvious by saying "you smell like caca-doodoo" or "hey butt-face, your face smells like butt". In person, my sarcasm is buttressed by my facial expression and tone of voice, but in text I need to be more playful with the actual words.

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