so I am a senior at a state college and know im a good looking dude. But I am 5'7 and I feel whenever I go out, I always end up feeling super intimidated because majority of men and some women are like towering over.

I feel for the most part like my inner game is on the right path because I am really starting to learn its about me and my success ultimately in a lot of areas in my life and not talking to "the one". I am just trying to get in the F*** it, it doesn't really matter attitude and just do it.

I get pretty pumped up reading up on this stuff, listening to confidence building things, but its like as soon as I get into the club....bam I am short uncomfortable and sick of just being pushed around...lol any help?? Thanks bros

get a phone with internet and read it at the club.

Do you have a built frame? That matters in a way, too.

From studying female psychology, I've noticed that girls like the men who aren't scrawny and pathetic looking. Do you have good looks? Your looks can save you if you're talking to a chick, but it can be your personality that can save you, too.

For me, I'd talk to them like I'd talk to every other chick in the club, bar, etc., when picking a girl up. The only difference is their height.

If they have a problem with your height, move along.

Honestly you probably notice it more than others do.

Go out, run game. If you are good looking that helps but some dudes are hidious and bang like 20 times more chicks then prob me and you put together...im talking like Hunch back of Notre dame ugly type dudes...if they can do it no reason we cant.

To me it sounds like an inner game issue, just think of all the other amazing atributes you have and get over the height thing...

Its no different then any other physical atribute...there is NOTHING you can do about it aside from accepting it and saying F*** anyone who doesnt like it.

Hey guys, lets keep it simple. Girls want to stay with taller guys, why? they feel safety with them. It doesnt mean that they dont want short guys, they just want a guy who can make her feel comfort and safe.

So If you are short guy, you have to show women that you are a safe guy aswell, there will big muscles or good skills with martial arts help you a lot, so don't feel a shame to tell them that you are master in taekwondo, even if you're not. I hope you see what I'm meaning.

BluHeron, I know what you're talking about. I, myself, am 5'8 1/2 and many girls I've met have told me that they prefer taller guys because they make them feel safe. However, the keyword here is "prefer" which means that their minds can be changed. As a shorter guy, you have to exhibit a dominant personality. You have to act and feel as if you are 7'0 tall at all times. Ladies will see this dominance and find themselves more attracted by you. Trust me it works. I have pulled many HBs just by doing this....even ones that were taller than me (I like the climb, lol).

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Man the average dude in the street which has a girl is not a martial arts black belt neither work out, google says there is 300 million obese people in the world, and this people eventually date. So (nothing against those who are obese Im just pointing another thing which some people also don´t feel comfortable to make a line of thinking). If you don´t feel comfortable with your body join a gym but for gods sake don´t take those fucking magical composes to build mass and so on. If you look healthy has a good self-stem and can communicate your size won´t mater so much on the end. Focus on your strong points

well bluheron, i myself am 5"7" and good looking.

when i was a bit younger 16/17, i worried about my height like many do,

i agree with bdot about exhibiting a personality be it "dominant" or "comfortable".

as for the issue of women liking taller men, perhaps the only truth in it is the correlation of height with other factors, such as men acting and feeling more confident because they are "taller", and me personally i have never had any issues doing well with 5 foot 11+ HB8-9's yet.

one night i went out clubbing with my friends rugby team.. yep you guessed it, they were ALL at least 6"2 and muslce bound, so when we entered the club i was at the very front, we kinda walked in single file, i was confident and comfortable, and getting mad attention and EC, maybe girls were subconsciously thinking " why is the short guy leading all the bigger men, he must be the AMOG" perhaps, who knows, all i know is that night went well.

my personal belief on game is to analyse results NOT only possibilities.

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dont worry about it just keep your f$%^& it attitude, thats your inner afc talking, i think your over thinking it too.


these are just some random thoughts i have on your delima in general: i hope i can help

Make lots of friends and lots of big friends, its not who you are its who you know. im 5' 2" and i have lots of big friends. unlike wieght, hieght is something we have no control of, so work on all other areas of your game, expand your social circle, workout every once in a while, work on your inner game such as improving your vocabulary, women are seduced by words. also lean back whenever possible dont lean in when talking to someone, this conveys that you are seeking approval, keep good posture and stick out you chest when walking, dont over do it though.

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Skittlepimp

Hey, I`m 2m (I think that is around 6,5ft), so I have to say something, you are good. Have self-confidence. The things that girls like tall guyz - that`s a social programing (I think that was the word). Maybe it`s was like that before hmm 50 years, but now the things are different. Be fashion (the words of one friend "fashion is the mother of all"). But all is self-confidence. Some tall guyz fears the short guys. Think about that. You can easy be Alpha surroundet by tall guyz.
I have problems too, d*mn I can`t find tall girls. Don`t know how are the girls there but in Bulgaria they are little short .
Again, don`t worry about it !

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Funny, I was just PMing someone on this very topic. I'm about 2 or 3 inches shorter than you are, and it's something that some women care about more than others. The number one thing that helped me all along was confidence. I know that's not helpful if your confidence is down, just saying "be confident" is not going to help. But what you can do is focus on your strengths and your pluses, work on the aspects of your Game that need work, and go from there. The confidence will come from doing those things and achieving more and more success, which will lead to more confidence, and so on.

I've had tall guys see me in action and ask me, "why are you so confident, you're this little guy." Haha. I'm confident because I know it hasn't stopped me from being with some really hot women. I'm confident because I know it's only one variable women look at, and for many it's of far less importance than other variables where I excel. I'm smart, funny, non-ugly (some say cute; I'll take that), and I have lots of hobbies and talents. I live my life, and women like that. [Sorry if I sound like I'm blowing my own horn here, but I'm trying to make a point. I'm confident.]

So keep at it. Keep improving in the areas you can, and don't worry about the stuff you have no control over. With effort, your Game can only improve.

Good luck.

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Napoleon Bonaparte. 'Nuff said.

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I don't know, was he getting lucky with the ladies or just winning wars? I'd say Tom Cruise might be a better role model for the height challenged (even though he seems to be completely nuts, hasn't slowed him down any).

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prince

same height as me 5' 2''

got carmen electra, apollonia kotero, madonna, sheila e, kim basinger

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Skittlepimp

Another great example. Talk about making the most of what you've got.

Focus on your positives, work on the things you can improve, and forget about the rest.

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