In my first term of university there was a girl in some of my classes who I could not take my eye off because she was quite frankly beautiful, she is also intelligent and seems to have a good personality from what I have seen. I bumped into her once in a night club and we briefly spoke, she asked for my name and added me on facebook, I figured she was just being friendly as opposed to this being an IOI so I did not pursue her on facebook, she wasn't in my classes after we met in the club during my second term but when I go back in September I will be seeing her in my classes again. I just need any advice or tips on how I should go about getting to know her more, without getting stuck in the 'friend zone'. Thanks.

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She asks for your name and then adds you on facebook and you think that's just a sign of her being 'polite'?

No, it isn't. She was indicating that she did have an interest in you, back then.

Now, your inability to take actions has done damage, that is assured. The extent of that will be seen when you meet her again.

So, if it's not too great, I suggest you start taking a little more active interest in the girl and stop thinking of yourself as her "friend".

And be bold in proclaiming your intentions. Only the weak hesitate.

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When you next see her, explode with energy. Make it clear that the reason you never contacted her was that you were so busy with other things in your life, but that you're excited to see her now! Project the energy of "Hi! I know you! Lets be best friends!" and make her regret never reaching out to YOU.

Except probably don't project "Let's be friends' hahaha

No, I think that's the best way to go. I think sexual energy can wait until the first meet up outside of class. Still kino plenty though.

question:
is it good thing to by like explaining yourself, why you haven't contacted her if she doesn't bring it up?

No, definitely not if she doesn't bring it up. You could imply the answer, that you're really socially busy, by saying "Why haven't you been coming out with us at all??? You'd love it, I can't believe I haven't invited you yet."

I think that the difference between ending in friend-zone and ending in bed, is sexual escalation, if you have sexual escalation then this would be no problem, she has already shown interest in you, make sure to sexual escalate and she is yours!