Field Report

Location: House Party, Redondo Beach, CA
Date: Last Saturday
Lesson Learned: Read On

So my wing Double D (female) and I knew we were gonna hit up this house party at my friend's friend's birthday in Redondo. Chicks were gonna be there. The perfect playground for a newly trained Venusian Artist.

I had my tools prepared, but lost my magic thumb tip somewhere. Oh well, screw it, I'll use the Kokology routines.

Anyways my F (female) wing and I start making our way thru the room from the beginning and just meeting random sets. The females are amazingly responsive, and many times during the sets, I'd find that groups of girls are sitting in crowds listening to my canned threads.

But I didn't post this field report to brag. So let me get to the point. The hottest chick came into the room with her friend. I approached her (which I would have never done 4 months ago when I was an AFC), and started with my opener... then storytelling... then a magic trick... then more fishing... and once we had something in common, another story to DHV. I could have sworn I had her, but her freakin' friend wouldn't leave so I couldn't number close. Things got cold because I lost my F wing.

So I regained my F wing and kindly asked her to distract the obstacle while I got the number's target. That's were I made my fatal mistake.

While I was out to find my lost F wing, a group of 5 guys tried to hit on the target. No luck, though. Then I came back with my F wing. By then, I don't know what the fuck happened, but the target was cold as ice. She clearly started acting like she was the shit. Tellimg me that she's into ballet and she's a freakin' goddess because she's been a backup dancer for the Nutcracker Ballet

ANYWAYS, THE BIG LEARNING POINT FROM THIS STORY (AND MY FATAL FLAW) WAS... that I should have negged her at that point. I should have told her that her forehead was the lowest forehead I've ever seen and that people with foreheads like her tend to live longer than other people. I should have asked her how she felt about her Office Depot job because most people couldn't afford a living with a shitty job like that.

But the point I'm trying to make is that I now understand what a NEG is for. You don't NEG someone who is working with you and being all nice and cooperative. NEGs are great for the chicks who think they're the bomb. You neg them to bring them back down to earth with the rest of us. And I think negs have to be customized. Just try to think of a way you can NEG a girl about something and make it sound like a joke, but at the same time, make the girl realize she's human and NOT a fucking goddess above the rest of us.

To make a long story short, because I made the mistake of NOT negging this arrogant chick, I couldn't number close. But if there's any other lesson to learn from this post, it's that a true Venusian Artist is NOT outcome dependent. My Female Wing and myself already have a couple other social events to meet new people, and I'm working on 2 other HBs right now (one of which is a HB9).

I hope this field reports clarifies a little bit about what and when a NEG is important. Feel free to tear this field report up, but if you do, offer some advice with it so we can all learn from it, will ya.

Respectfully,

M

M,
I think you NEG first as opener

That is an option whizz kid

But sometimes don't work that well , I prefer to open with a normal line , or a normal opinion opener and after a Dhv throw the NEG...

I guess M learned a lesson about PUA; and all of us should learn form others mistakes, I have been there (not negging a HB10) and I also have used too many NEgs in a HB9 , to the point the girl just turned around and left.

But anyway Just remember this:

Every time you go out to sarge try to learn something; it doesn't matter that you had the best night ever, and you slept with 10 girls , there is always room for improvement , learn form your mistakes and the mistakes of other PUA

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good post XFman.

I was a little confused about what exactly a neg was when i first started becoming a PUA. I wish i would have seen this thread then, it could have helped clear things right up.

but atleast its here for other new members.

good luck sargin, fella's.

You shoulda won the obstacle over first :p I you're supposed to ignore the target until the obstacle is comfortable with you and you get IOIs from the target (if you're running indirect game).