Look, all you blokes seem to try the most complex routine and shit to try open a girl youve never met on facebook right? I tried countless times with a good profile, sending out the most crazy opening messgaes i could think of. truth is, all i got were no replies, a few insulted, confused lasses and once or twice, a nice conversation. BUT yesterday, i tried something new, fucking revolutionary! i just added the HB fucking 9 and waited till she was online on CHAT. I say "hey, bit of a random add, but i need a quick honest opinion on something really weird." she says "ok..." and i neg her a tad and make her promise to keep it a secret :p. i then go and tell some massive DHV spiked story i made the fuck up, and she loved it. This has worked well the last few times i have tried it today. So seriously, forget all the opening messages, thats creepy i reckon. tell matchbook method or whatever manual youse are using to fuck off and just add the bitch, say hi and start a normal convo, with a plausible reason! (btw im 17 in year 12 in aus. maybe demographics and age play a part, hbut i think this is the best way to go. or you can just go out sarging in person. whatever floats your boat)