Hey guys,

I've actually run into an incredibly confusing barrier as far as fashion: the problem of dressing well, but not being sexually alluring. Allow me to provide some context:

My entire life, I've wanted to dress sharp. Of course, I went through that awkward period when my fashion was terrible, but lately I've felt good about how I look and what I wear. Unless the situation warrants otherwise, I keep it classy. On a day in class, you'll see me in a nice oxford shirt, a good pair of jeans, nice leather shoes, intentionally messy hair, or some variant thereof. I've started avoiding polo.

Out at night, I'll go with a v-neck and blazer combo with jeans, etc. I've built a wardrobe of NICE clothes.

The problem is that women I talk to will tell me I 'look great' or have 'great style' and I'm 'classy and professional', but swoon over the guy in the t-shirt and ripped jeans with greasy hair. I'm confident in my voice and body. I have an air as an alpha. But my "excellent style" is not attracting women, and I've been landed in the friendzone by a number of beautiful women. Anything I can do to my outer game to change this? I'm fully open to criticism and suggestions, so long as we remain civilized.

Thanks,
Yungsik

I'm assuming your going out to bars n clubs, so when you go out would you rather see women in a blouse n dress pants or a slutty little dress with heels on? It just seems like your style isn't appropriate for your location. Go out some night with one of your favorite shirts on, decent pair of jeans n shoes and focus on your game n sexuality rather than your looks. This might send off a better vibe for you.

Good Luck

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Your not getting rejected, you seeing if she has good taste.

Hey man, im sort of in the same boat as you.
where I go to school my "normal" wardrobe so far outshines in terms of fit, and construction that even though it is theoretically exellent and at home in NYC it works, it sets me apart is a bad way at a school where frat letters and jeans are the norm. (Not that frat letters are bad, I am in one myself) So even though ill be comfortable in Alden Indy boots, raw Dior mij 19cm's, BOO button downs...ill look out of place.

I have to put on my uncomfortable as fuck Frat letters (ill still wear my raw denim though, some cheaper older APC and beater Dayton service boots for the bar still kicks ass)

I guess the moral is, dress as you please, especially cause well dressed motherfuckers are hard to come by thesedays, but also be prepared to make consessions, cause positive attention from cloths by day, doesnt translate to positive attention at night where it might seem stuck up. (dont dress for a dinner at peter lugers when your going to a dive bar)

what you want to do buddy is... Take some time out, happen to be strolling past a club at night? Check out what the guys wearing with no PUA tricks be wearing. Then you will know broads around your area like a guy to wear and you can bend your style towards that.

I know that when i used to live down south (England talk) that girls swarmed me and complimented my style which is almost identical to yours, don't get me wrong i think a shirt, jeans and leathers is the best look going, but sometimes you've just gotta go with the current flow. When i went up north chicks didn't dig my style they liked the cats in small town clothes.

At the end of the day HB's will probably like your style, but the everyday chicks will like guys wearing whats popular. Get me?