Hey guys, 18 year old here from Montreal, still a virgin and have never kissed a girl, looking to change all of that with the help of all of you guys. Been reading posts from this site for about a month now and have finally decided to get an account going. Been wanting to get into the game since all of my friends are total alphas, and I have been a beta for far too long. My goal is to be able to live a life where I don't have any regrets about what I do, learn from my mistakes, live life and be the best possible person I can be. Looking forward to all the pep talks you guys have for me in my future posts .

Mr. Keel

welcome mr keel, to set you on the right track, good authors are Neil Strauss, Mystery and David DeAngelo.. to start with.

i know you said you've been reading this forum for a while. but read a few of their books on PU and you'll have a good base..

best way to learn would probably be in the field, but its better if you have a game plan going in. don't know if you've read these but good luck bro

Thanks for the advice guesss. After reading your post, I when out and decided to check out the authors you suggested, and got mystery's "The Pickup Artist". Reading through it now. Also went out today with a friend and told him about the community, and such, but he was not that into the whole idea and to put it nicely he turned his nose up to the whole idea. He was refusing or changing topics when I would suggest opening a girl. I'm starting to think I should surround myself with people more willing to, and try new things.

surrounding yourself with guys who are good with women will definitely help your game. but dont just leave your mate hanging because he's not too open, you were probably like that once.

when you go out just be friendly, fun and open. This will help enhance your game once you fully understand the pick up process.

just to add to my other suggestion. As you are a newbie, you should try and develop your inner game as much as you can. read the thread on this section. having a solid inner game will take you far in the future.

it seems your also slightly affected by peer pressure. if your friend doesnt want to do something and you do, it doesnt make you a bad person to do it anyway. you dont have to have a wing with you when you pick up chicks. the biggest stumbling block for newbies is approach anxiety. once you overcome this or suppress it, your game will properly begin. try the newbie drill and go out to the local mall or somewhere that has a lot of people and say hello to every chick that passes. you will be afraid at first but after a few you will get over it. you will also notice that some of the chicks you say hi to will actually start up a conversation with you.

good luck dude

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