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Have you considered that maybe "solid game" has more to do with what comes AFTER the opener, how you project yourself, your bodlanguage, tonality, eye contact, and sexual escalation, and less to do with the words you actually say?
This is actually true, and there is science to back this up. The opener itself doesn't matter much. In fact you could say the most ridiculous thing ever like "I like yellow shows on my leprechauns" and as long as you say it with confidence and a smile chances are you will get a warm reception.
The first line is actually one of the least important in the pickup. But it gets the most attention because it is what men often have a big problem with because of approach anxiety.
But don't worry, once you get passed the opener there's other obstacles you'll have to overcome
