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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:53 am 
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next day(wednesday) since we broke up she came to me in school and told me that she didnt want a break up just a time and with her behave she didnt want to achieve break up but just needed time so i told her now she can have time as much as she wants :)
when i gave her a hug (to see how she reacts) she gave me it back and told me she would like to give me another
also she told me we could stay friends atleast i told her i wont be her friend since i still have feelings for her and i am out of her life

anyway yesterday i broke my leg she didnt contact me or write sms lets see how she cares today


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next day(wednesday) since we broke up she came to me in school and told me that she didnt want a break up just a time and with her behave she didnt want to achieve break up but just needed time so i told her now she can have time as much as she wants :)
when i gave her a hug (to see how she reacts) she gave me it back and told me she would like to give me another
also she told me we could stay friends atleast i told her i wont be her friend since i still have feelings for her and i am out of her life

anyway yesterday i broke my leg she didnt contact me or write sms lets see how she cares today
i was with you all the way til tis part:

"i broke my leg yesterday, and she didn't contact me or write me, let's see how much she cares"

who gives a fuck? quit worrying about it. she's gone...right? or..............

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next day(wednesday) since we broke up she came to me in school and told me that she didnt want a break up just a time and with her behave she didnt want to achieve break up but just needed time so i told her now she can have time as much as she wants :)
when i gave her a hug (to see how she reacts) she gave me it back and told me she would like to give me another
also she told me we could stay friends atleast i told her i wont be her friend since i still have feelings for her and i am out of her life

anyway yesterday i broke my leg she didnt contact me or write sms lets see how she cares today
i was with you all the way til tis part:

"i broke my leg yesterday, and she didn't contact me or write me, let's see how much she cares"

who gives a fuck? quit worrying about it. she's gone...right? or..............
Of course not. He wants to be with her... did you forget about the tactics he was using to "teach her" or "make her learn"?

What happened to the freeze out, Sayha? Did you actually ever talk to this girl about the problem, or did you just freeze her out until both of you were too confused and emotional to do anything to fix the problem? :roll:

At least you know now that freeze-outs do not work in relationships... nor do any kind of emotion-manipulating behavior, even though they might work really well in pick-up. Emotional manipulation will backfire in relationships, unless it is very rarely applied and always positively applied. That is the hard part about transitioning from pick-up to relationship.

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about the freeze out yes i spoke with her about this more than once but she was still acting like an ignorant and the one who is not available
so now she just has what she wanted

yes Mack she is gone but we will still see eachother in school and we are in same socialcircle


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So she hasn't came crawling back to you?


So moral of the story is, if a girl reduces texting/talking to you, it's going to end up with you 2 splitting.


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So she hasn't came crawling back to you?


So moral of the story is, if a girl reduces texting/talking to you, it's going to end up with you 2 splitting.
no not even a single SMS if i am ok or something
she is excepting me to do it lol but i already reinitiated contact with other girls so dont really care about her :)

well when i tried to explain her that in relationship girl and boy are equal to eachother she tried convince me that girl is more than boy and boy should do more for relationship then she told me how much other boys did for her and she was stupid she didnt appreciate it (here i was sure i wont last long with this girl)

so thats why she wont contact me since she feels something more than boys and boy should chase her lol


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So she hasn't came crawling back to you?


So moral of the story is, if a girl reduces texting/talking to you, it's going to end up with you 2 splitting.
no not even a single SMS if i am ok or something
she is excepting me to do it lol but i already reinitiated contact with other girls so dont really care about her :)

well when i tried to explain her that in relationship girl and boy are equal to eachother she tried convince me that girl is more than boy and boy should do more for relationship then she told me how much other boys did for her and she was stupid she didnt appreciate it (here i was sure i wont last long with this girl)

so thats why she wont contact me since she feels something more than boys and boy should chase her lol
That trick is on a pedastool. She was shit testing you trying to make you do things
for her. My ex was very similar to yours.

You're setting yourself apart from the rest of the guys. Guys generally tend to do a lot for a girl. (The ones that don't know pick up) So when a PUA comes along and treats a girl just like he would a friend, she's going to think, "WTF. I'm hot. Why isn't this guy trying to do all this stuff for me." Blablabla, thus building attraction... you know the whole story.


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she tried convince me that girl is more than boy and boy should do more for relationship
dude, you seriously need to text this girl a pic of your cock with another girl's face impaled on it. then ... freezeout ... for eternity.

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I am very interested in freezeouts for some reason.

Probably because it is probably THE MOST POWERFUL psychological technique, or one of them-- and it requires zero effort.

Well... that's actually not true, it's the hardest thing in the world if you give a shit about the lady. But even so!

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I don't understand this thread at all.

You did not get what you wanted at all, in any way, shape, or form... and yet you continue to play these manipulative games and insist that your technique is "THE MOST POWERFUL."

Is this thread about manipulating girls emotionally, or is it about finding solutions to problems?

You've continually disregarded the best advice in this thread in favor of "freeze that bitch out" and "take a picture of your cock with another girl's face impaled on it and send it to her." WTF? What results did you expect when you follow the advice of people who refer to women that way?

This thread went down the toilet. I'll say it again, joking or not, some of you guys have some dangerous and unfortunate ideas about women.

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Take Mack's advice!! Rail another chick...take pics...send to her...then forget about her...


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You are so right. It is often faster and more reliable, however, it is also usually shamelessly devoid of integrity, honesty, or decency.
I don't necessarily think this is true. Not all the time.

It could just be a random thing, though-- sometimes it works out to be decent, sometimes not, but always it is raw pragmatism based on resources.

The rationalization thing is even more frightening. They seem to be capable of rationalizing any decision.

I often think that women are basically completely inscrutable to men. The "what she thinks she wants, what she says she wants, and what she actually wants" thing is a huge part of it. I think that women are not always conscious at all of why they make the decisions they do.

I was just privy to a display of extreme, insane irrationality and pragmatism. I was the instigator, sort of. My mind is blown yet again, to such an extent that I'm still sort of reeling at the whole thing. And I am JADED.

Seriously, I think they don't have any rational clue what they're doing 90% of the time.

This is why I think it's so important to use techniques that cut through bullshit and are based on how YOU feel, and not on weird convoluted attempts to understand why the woman is behaving in some weird, bizarre way. They are inscrutability within inscrutability.

How do you like this for a proverb: "When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out."

I'm seriously sick and tired of dealing with them. I've seen enough greasy cloacas to last a lifetime and I'm weary of all the incessant bullshit.

Course I'm working on two new ones.

ANDDDD as David X mentioned: Rule #1: Don't give a shit what they think. Rule #2: Read rule #1, motherfucker.


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i just broke up with her at her home she gave back my items and i gave her hers
when i told her we are over she was kinda laughing like she didnt give a fuck :o
When you two broke up you shouldn't have accepted your items back or given hers back. The only way to make this shit work is to KEEP YOUR INTEGRITY at the same time, in other words, keep up the "good" rapport. She WANTS you to be mad at her, she WANTS you to hate her, she WANTS you to laugh it off...

The number one lesson in life is to give love no matter what. You will always win if you give love. If you fight hate with hate, no one wins.


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After my girl came down for the weekend she said she needed more time and that she didnt know how to feel.

I turned around and said i cant sit here while you decide so its over and till you make up your mind

She wanted to me to crack and abuse her, she wanted me to cry but I didnt I just said that was it i couldnt do it.

I dont know if its a win to me or not


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I'm pulling the no contact thing with my ex to try and get back with her I havent called txted or tried facebooking her. The problem is we are both in a marching band and see each other almost every day. I don't look her way or talk to her. We also both have similar friends in our social circle. How can I apply no contact with my ex if I see we see each other everyday? I want to make her bealive that I don't need her and I truly feel Tht I don't but I would like to win her back. I've been looking at other options as well. Any comments would be helpful.


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