I'm not attacking you or anything like that-- I'm just pointing out that you've written ten pages at least on this thread, probably closer to fifteen (at 250 words per page).

I think overanalysis is dangerous, especially when you're trying to make sense of something with incomplete information, or a chaotic situation. I do it myself.

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

I agree with you though. I have no clear evidence for anything and I should not analyze it to deep. The only thing I know is that she rejected a second date (which she said she did not) and we are going on our second this Sunday. In all normal conditions I would push this much faster, but it’s going so slow. This would be having much easier if she just had answered the first bloody text message for the second date. Let’s see what’s happens on Sunday and then we can see where we are heading.

If you are going on your second date and you are overanalyzing it to such an extent... you need to apply your analytical skills to your OWN predispositions and thought process. Uncertainty is going to cause you to go mad.

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

Yeah, I know, you are correct. But this has been going on since January or something. She is playing me. I’m not playing her. Sure, I need to focus on my own game. That is what is important as you emphases’. If I look at my own game

1. I’m not needy (not one bit) or talk to her often.

2. I talk too much and talk about things that she don’t care about or understand

3. I’m not flirty instead I’m sarcastic and use a lot of negs. She finds me funny.

4. I don’t listen to her (Which she has implied)

I sent her a text message this morning (Which is like me 6th ever)

Me: "Good morning. Is everything oright with you. Have you called the union yet,
Huge" (reference to our last conversation 3 days ago)

30 seconds later she answers: "Good morning. Everything is going well here. How are you? Im going to call them right away"

Me: "Its chilled bananas here. Great "

30 seconds later she answers: "haha, Yeah "

She do not replay with hugs. Bitch...

I do not think there will be a second date. We talked a couple of days ago over Facebook and I asked her about some stuff, and she was very short telling me “sorry I’m on the phone” and I did not contact her after that. Saturday evening I was at a friend’s house and drank some wine. I thought that it would be nice to text her for this date so I didn’t drink too much. I wrote:

“Hey, how are you. I hope you follow me tomorrow because so I learn how to flirt and listen No, but It would be nice to see you again and get to some inspiration. Is 14:00 at XXXX working for you? Huge. “

The first thing was just a reference to a thing we talked about. I erased her number (once again). There is like no more point to push it. Now it’s bloody obvious that I’m into her, but it is also bloody obvious that she is not into me. I’m tired of waiting another month for her saying “Oh we should see each other” and then back out or freeze me out when I ask her out. We would have seen each other now, but she has not even bothered to call or text me. That is it for me. I’m 100 percent positive she was out last night and has a heavy hangover but, hey I think it is an awful attitude to not just text me. For a moment ago we were on Facebook at the same time, but she did not even bother to contact me there.

Either way I’m in the beginning to patch up things with my former girlfriend of like two years. We had a better conversation then ever yesterday and she told me she missed me very much. I miss her too. Either way how it will end up, I will from now only date girls that show at least some coherent and proper attitude.

I hope this text have learnt you guys to stayway from certain girls. I have learnt a lesson too. If I want a girl, play her right away (do not wait a year), if you see any signs of bull shit, drop her and stay away of befriending her or act in a way (I have done so a couple of times) that is not attractive.

Good Luck guys! Thank you for the input!