I've already been on a sort of date with this girl before and even though it went really well (no awkward silences at all, lots of kino and sexual tension, Had her laughing a lot) I've not really seen her since. That was about a month + ago. We have chatted online/phoned but not haven't seen her face to face.

She has most definitely cooled off now and I will have to start again with the effort but I dont mind that I am just having trouble wording how to get her to come on a 2nd date.

There is a band coming to town in a couple of weeks who we both love but every time I think about asking her to come (over analyzing I know) it seems like I'm coming across needy.

Anyone have any tips on how to word it to ask her?

Thanks

Hey dude.

Just call her, chit chat around and than ask her if she hear of the upcoming concert and that you will go there so if she wants to she can acompany you.

Dont think so much

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I don´t guarantee any success. Every gamestyle is different because every person is different so not all material will work.
I can only give tips due to my experience.

First of all, I don't have much game, but here's what I'd do...
Pretend that it's not a date, it's just you guys hanging out. "Hey, me and some friends are going to this concert, and I remembered that you like them. We ended up with an extra ticket, do you wanna come?"

If you planned on going alone with her, then you'd have to reword it to try to make it just as casual. "Me and a buddy were gonna go to this concert, but he blew me off, so now I have an extra ticket. Wanna come?"

If you are just hanging out, then there's no expectations, and less nervousness.

I never understood why everyone is so afraid to use "the D word". Are you really that unconfident in yourself that you assume if you reveal your romantic intentions to her she'll run the other way? Guess what... "hanging out" is what friends do, so keep it up and find yourself in the friend zone. If you still want alternative wording, you can use what I do for day 2's - "hey, let's get together on friday"

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"advance until resistance is met"
- Julius Caesar, Rome

If u use that hanging around shit u will end up in the ljbf-zone as devi4nt said.
If she is interested in u show her u apreciate it and u dont make a big deal of u liking her....
if she asks u if u just want to bone her or any shit girls are worring bout just say:" we are both adults and we wont do anything we dont want to do.."

but dont let is sound needy... let it sound like u eventually have some free time and stuff and u ask her out if she says she is busy and she actually is(u might know if she is sirious or just flaking depends in which way she tells you) just flaking and says another time just say ur busy and try to find another time....
if she is just fucking around with u just say... pleasure talkin to you and hang up...dont waste your time^^

regards ac3

Thanks for all the replies!

The band I was going to ask her to come see I noticed she clicked attending on facebook so I guess she is going any way with some friends. I guess it wont be a date but will still probably hook up with her there.

Oh well time to find some new idea for a date ha.

Thanks for the advice though everyone.