HELP. I have used The Game last year to successfully pick up many girls. I was a natural before, but my game became a lot better because of the help. I won the game. I've been in a happy relationship for almost 9 months now. You can laugh, I love her. I've taken her virginity and she's in love with me too.

Here is the dilemma.

We are both going away to different universities in the fall. 6 months from now. I was with her long distance (because I moved) for 5 months. It hasnt been easy, and now that I'm back I've had the question on my mind. What should I do come fall?

She wants to make it work. I mean she doesnt like to think about it and gets really upset when she thinks about us being apart... I want to be with her alot too. University is full of amazing experiences, and IF she went to university with me she could experience them with me. But she is not.

My question to my fellow PUA brothers.

Should I break it off even if I really want to make things work? It's hard to ask advice from many of you that have not experienced REAL emotional connections with girls (love) I mean I didnt for the 2 years I was PUA lol. (Dont meant to offend anyone with that) Please give me your honest advice. Long distance can work but is it worth it?

ps more details. (Hour and a half away, and we are back home together for 5 months of the year during university break)

PLEASE I am killing for advice.

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To me, you're just another number.

Well I had a Long Distance Relantioship we were both studying on diferent university, its not easy, really not easy, I really enjoyed this type of relantioship because you have time for you, I saw my Girl two and two weeks and if I had time I would catch the train and suprise her early. Is hard especially when you fight by phone or SPAM. And for this type of relantioship you really need to trust her and the other way around or this wont last long.

Is hard but can work if you gys really like eachother, you will probably will spend more energy sustaining this relantioship. And sometimes its a problem when you go out and have a girl grinding you and you dont see your girl for 2weeks, But if you guys plan to see in time to time, suprise her or she suprising you. will make things fresh, and believe me getting back together after one week or two weeks you will miss her and she will too, which for me its plus.

But in my experience and my friends it doesnt work, but i believe some guys can do it, Only knew one couple that did that and they are living happily

Thanks alot man, that really helped. I mean it takes a lot of trust, and self discipline lol. I hope I everything works out !

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To me, you're just another number.

Do you have any advice on Extremely long distance where traveling once a week is totally out of the question. Me and her are 19 driving hrs. apart, it was sad and all lovely at the beginning. We tried phone sex, webcam, even sleeping on the phone together..but now as time pass by I feel like we are slipping away from each other.
Any advice?

i hate to break it to you OP...

but i think the best decision for the two of you is to just let go... if you trully care about her, you will let her go and be happy. Tis better to end things now and cherish the good times you had together, than to soil what was a good relationship because the two of you were stubborn. Remember that most of the relationships you will have will be temporary. It will be a lot easier for the two of you, if you just allow nature to flow. Let her be happy and find someone else, who CAN be there for her, and you do the same... Its the healthy thing to do...

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"Be the change you wanna see in the world" -Gandhi

I'm in your situation, but coming to the end of my first year.

FYI, we're still together.

It's been ridiculously hard and we've argued lots, but we trust each other and have all but made it through the first year.

We've been together for 13 months, seeing each other for 19.

Our biggest test will be next year when she goes off to Uni as well (she is a year younger).

Here's my thoughts on why we tried it:

- I seriously thought about ending it and staying friends and cherishing the good times.
- Would you really want to give up the girl you love just because you think it's the right thing to do ? It's cowardly imo - you should try and make it work and then you will never regret letting her go. What would you regret more, letting her go and wanting her everyday since, or giving it your absolute best and it just not working out ? Yea it could end ugly, but you don't know it will and at least you tried. It could also end happily ever after and this girl stays with you for a long long time.

Your choice, just my thoughts.