I've been on this forum for a little amount (since 3 days?) and I find it very very usefull, I've been learning a lot but I seem to not find something about clubs in dancing part...

Let's have an example, I'm in the crowd with lot of people with my friends and things like that, I see a group of girls, what do I do?

Or I'm in the middle of the crowd with a good looking girl next to me dancing, what is a good opener?

I am in mind to use the 3s strategy but my problem is after it..it would be very very awkward to distract a girl that is dancing just to say "hi" and say that their style is cool or something like that...

I want to improve so what are some good openers in this cases?


*edit*
I have been thinking of it and I thaught of a situational opener:

*I'm dacing with my group and suddenly by mistake a girl pushes me*
Me: Hey next time you push me you will have to give a kiss on the cheek/give me your number/say me your name/pay me a drink? (with a smile on the face)

What do you think?

Bump for interest, this has been something I've been wondering about as well. Like OP said, it seems a bit awkward just to strut into a group of dancing girls and being like "Heyyy ladieeees"! Gotta be some subtle way to manipulate a situation like that...

Honestly I tend to have very little success talking on the dance floor. Its so under the energy levels that you're instantly making yourself the subtractor of fun rather than being the fun. Girls on a dance floor are literally looking for where the fun is and will go to that.

It's easy for guys who are excellent dancers, girls love dancing and if a guy can dance well and be fun at the same time they LOVE it. My friend is a professional dancer, I was in set just by the dance floor with 3 girls had them all hooked, he walked over and bust the most ridiculous move and shouted "dance off!" It was like i'd vanished! And all they wanted to do was dance with him!

Anyway here's my advice:

- I look for eye contact, the girls are looking around here there and everywhere, if they hold eye contact then thats their IOI.

- Non verbal communication, winking, tounge pulling, depends on the situation.

- You dont have to be a great dancer, learn some funny dance moves, Ive seen people open a whole group of girls up by strutting in there doing hilarious dance moves, super confidently, making sure theyre smiling. Nothing worse than unconfidently going in there and being like an annoying fly they just want to swat, either grab the situation by the balls or go home.

- Peacock Peacock! Wear funny shades or a hat. Girls love it and will grab it, if they like you, that's there excuse to get you to dance with them. Or you can just put it on a girls head for fun.

But here comes the killer by a mile! And honestly , its powerful but you can only really pull it off once a night, and with a friend usually. I do this and have had major success with it. The LIMBO! I take my belt off, hold one end and give the other end to a hb in a group, and make it seem like its totally improtu, then my friend limbos under the belt whilst I wave other girls/guys who ever under it. The attention if done correctly is amazing!! literally me and a friend have had the entire dance floor of a small club lining up to limbo.
Rules I stick by:

1 make sure it's me holding the belt for the most part, that way people know im the fun.
2 Always use a HB, even if you dont get with her people think she's your friend and that gives you pre selection.
3 Do it around the peak of a night, doing it at the start before everyone is drunk will be a disaster. Also be super high energy and wave as many peopple as possible.
4 Dont hold the limbo too low, in fact make it fairly easy, girls in heels wont go under a low one
5 if possible get you friend to grab girls and go under two by two, you can switch so he holds it whilst you go under with your HB. Most the time some girl will grab you first!
6 Be ready to aticipate it fizzling out do it whilst its still good, and make sure people see you putting YOUR belt back on, so again they know YOU are where the party is at. Girls sometimes want to carry on and theyre literally taking my belt back off hahaa! Also there is notihng worse than doing the limbo, everyone gets bored because you're still there 5mins later and everyones gone back to dancing, you might as well be a dancing monkey.
7 hug the girl you opened, do whatever your value is awesome right now, in fact open the whole group!

I did this once and later on in the night one of the club dancers from the stage came and opend me with, "hey nice limbo!" I k closed and got her number that night.

Wow that's awesome! The limbo thing is just amazing and well thaught, though I gotta get a friend who is willing to do so, the friends I have are a little shy and normal and don't like to go and do extreme awesome things because they think it's pretty stupid...

Thanks for the advices, I'm going to put this advices into work this night maybe (not the limbo though, no friend willing to do so, I bet)

I've tried this opener and it works kinda of well. You simply do the following:

1. Spot the group of girls you want to approach.

2. walk up to the the group and ask (with a smile) " which one you girls is the best dancer?"

3. they usually point out someone in the group and then you say to her " show me your stuff I wanna see if your better than me" she may ask to see what you have but just tell her " show me first the I'll show you. By this point your both in a playful mode.

then this creates a SPAM of fun, then you playfully exchange dance moves and by the end or when you feel it comfortable you move on with your game and start a conversation.

Doesn't matter if you can't dance to save yourself just be silly make them laugh to lower their guard.