hey Guys!
I thought for a while how to say this exactly (it really is a bitch of a situation). I really hope you guys can help!

I'll start by saying I think I've "come down with one-itus" for this girl who, incidently, is in a relationship with her boyfriend for over four years. I should mention that i have never met her in person (we met online on a close reading website so things were innocent enough to begin with). over time we became really close and I pretty know much everything about her and likewise.

it wasn't until about 2/3 months ago where I figured "OMG i'm in love with this girl" and i told her exactly how I felt. Your probably thinking "bad move son" but rather than just flat out reject me...she burst into tears and felt really guilty and said she really wished we could be together but she will not break up with her BF.
PU taught me never to outright ask a girl to break up with their bf or to talk shit about him, so I havent.

She is in a long distance realtionship with him while she studies in america and he visits her every once in a while.

Is there any way i could get this girl? I would usually of left it alone but...I just cant, not without atleast trying and seeing if we would make a good couple.

Wow,this' serious.

I can verbally beat you up for such aweful move but...

Wow,1st off,you're aiming to high by wanting to be with her.

Your primary goal should be to lay her then see how it goes-which in many cases it ends up leading to an LTR(relationship).

If you lay her,she will most likely be with you and drop her current bf and occasionally sleep with him,i.e.cheat on you.

So without lying her 1st.you have no shot of making her your gf realistically.

You have to lay her 1st to get her that emotionally invested that she'd leave her current bf.

She will not do it if you havent slept with her.

If she does agree to be with you and leave him,without sleeping with you,she will continue to secretly be with her ex- and screw him while leading you along.

Thats not the situation you want.

So work to set up a meet 1st,lay her,then she's yours.

But you cannot make her yours without 1st sleeping with her;thats backwards.

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Okay well all of that makes sense but shes not the kinda girl to outright "cheat" on her BF by sleeping with another guy. She's told me this explicitly.

We did plan on meeting up but her boyfriend took didnt like the idea (cant blame him!) So thats not gonna happen. I really need to know how to get her away form him so I cam run game on her...I'm such a bad person at times I know, but I;ve accepted that.

Travis.,man the hell up!!!

If you cant get to sleep with her because she's not the type to cheat,then you might a well give up.

And since when what a woman says is true?

No women will ever tell you that she would cheat.

Not even the ones who cheat admits it.

You really need to read some women psycology articles in the community.

Dont listen to what she says about not cheating.

If she was willing to meet with you,but her bf stopped it,then she's willing to cheat.

It just takes the right guy,right tones and non-judgemental to get her to cheat.

You are not that guy at this point.

When a woman tells me she doesnt have ONS(one night stands),I laugh internally 'cause I know it's only plausible deniability & ASD at work.

How many women have I laid who told me prior that they dont have ONS,Im not their type...

Plz,read some women psycology stuff by Tyler Durden,my favorite- dating coach.

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