Theres a lot of guys in the communitty who are getting girls, sex, but not love... even Mystery get depressed because of this problem i think so...

Well why are we here... for some of the guys who more than just sex wants the LOVE of that girl...

I mean if you want puppy eyes and hollywood love images in your life the secret is to found if the girl have a void to fulfill...

For example why motivators have a lot of girls loving them i mean LOVING not just atracted... Because in this world theres a lot of people who are depressed and have not the life they want...

Find the void in a girl and is yours forever...

Love attraction and lust all work in the same area of the brain. They are also seperate from all the other emotions.

They work in the same area as addictions. If you think about that, love is a drug.
To keep some woman in your life, keep providing that initial romantic spark that made her lust for you in the first place. If you stop gaming her you lose what keeps her interested. Just remember that even if you have f-closed her, she still may lose interest.

Never give up the game, even if you think you have won.

Yes, there is a fine line. And, if you want a true relationship, you have to cross that line. If you do want love from that one special girl, you still HAVE to know how to attract her. Which means all of the techniques and attraction switches you learn about from the PU community are STILL valid and neccessary. You still have to flip those switches. Then, you need to KEEP them flipped to keep the girl attracted to you. From that point it depends on what each guy wants. Some of us do want that one special girl, others don't.

What country are you from sxperiments?

The best relationship I have ever seen was my aunt and uncle's relationship. I could have seen them together forever (unfortunately he died at 31), because they had been married for several years, but still kept gaming eachother like they were in a fresh relationship. Negs and push pull and almost all techniques apply even after you tie the knot.

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you know this is a good post. I believe that i wanted to have game and fuck alot of girls. But also find that 1 girl. Now i had found that one special girl but im SCARE so i left her behind and i didnt even F CLOSE. But the connection was there and damn it was there. You dont find to many girls like that. I have fuck other girls i have talk to other girls and shit they dont even compare to this one girl. Finally im starting to talk to her again. AND im fucking it up agian and agian and she call me complicated haahah. I dont know wtf is wrong with me i guess im just scare of that commitment or getting crush later on. Fuck the game its all natural. Get pussy and Live life. From me... Artist

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So, in other words, you are using PU to just fuck a lot of girls and forget about that one special girl that would be meaningful.

Every one has different goals, if one guy wants to just get laid with different girls until he dies, good for him. He knows what he wants.

If another guy just wants to find that one special girl, good for him. He knows what he wants.

Everyone has a different idea of the perfect life, and no one is better than the other. It's all about your goals.

Artist can have the same philosphy as Zan, make as many women happy as possible.

That's...uncool. You're denying exactly what you really want and lying to youself about who you really are and that goes against the very premise of being a PUA in my opinion. I wouldn't mind being in L.A. Tripp's position and having a wife I love and trust and that trusts me and loves me enough to bring other women into it and that doesn't mind me going out sarging, that would be amazing! But personally, what I REALLY want, more than anything I think, is to find a girl that isn't going to bore me a few months or years down the road and that I find amazingly attractive (that doesn't mean she has to be a 10 to everyone, or even an 8 to everyone, but she's a 10 to me) and that I can be satisfied and confident that it is a totally monogomous relationship. I don't know why, because you'd think every guy would want to have as many women as possible, but that's just how I feel. Until that point however, I would like to perfect being someone that girls desire, so that I can get there, and also be with as many beautiful women as I feel something for along the way.

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Ok, hold up MrHappy. I might be taking this wrong, but I think you're thinking I'm criticizing Artist. I was just asking a question based on what he said. If that's what he wants, sure, fine. But he also said something else . . . that he kept fucking up with the one girl that he thinks is special, so I'm trying to be clear on what he wants.

Nope you are right, sorry I just took what you said the wrong way. The wording just went wrong through my head and I assumed the wrong thing. Just one of the things I have been raised with, that any life style is acceptable.

So, it was my mistake. Sorry L.A.

Don't let it happen again!

Mistakes are lessons =P I can keep making them as long as I learn from them too.

to be clear. I have found the girl of my DREAM.her looks might not fully be there a 8 but not a solid 8 but hey this girl have everything. She qaulify and make me feel like a AFC. Bad timing for the both of us. So i say i still have alot of life to live before i SETTLE DOWN OR EVEN COME CLOSE TO IT. Now other girls you might MEET or sarge is not that rewarding if theyre shallow, boring, not interesting and ect. Real dudes you know what i mean. Theyre like just there just to FUCK, or Test samples haha damn im so bad. Listen when you fuck up the connection its FUCK for a very long time. Remember that . Dont REJECT THE CONNECTION. you will or know what i mean later on your PUA MISSION. for now im trying to master human interaction

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Ummmm, ok . . . huh?

The only thing I "think" I'm clear on (lol) is that you've found the girl of your "dream" and you rejected the connection because you chickened out/choked and you're warning the rest of us not to do the same.

Ummm, so quit choking your own damn chicken and go fix the connection. If you can't get over your fear of that you'll never be a PUA.