So I know this person for a while, she is a girl. She always say things to make me look bad.

When I was introducing to some girls, she goes "watch out for this guy."

Also, I was showing some girls that the drinks should be on the right side of the plate.

Then she goes why are you so mean to them?

Solution, thoughts?

a) quit going out places with this girl
b) take whatever she says like "watch out for this guy" and use it to your advantage to be cocky and funny. For example, if she says that respond "yes hes incredibly good looking and funny"

Maybe this girl actually likes you and is preventing you from meeting other girls because she want's you all to herself. By the way do you think she is interested in you and gives you any IOIs?

I dont know. We used to be chill once. But then we didn't really talk for a year.

I dont think she likes me very much. But cocky funny sounds like the way to go. For now.

What would you say to what are you being mean to them?

Don´t take her serious. Be cocky funny then and ignore her then. You´ll make her look like a fool. Kinda amog her, and if it´s realy necessairy, push her away.

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Sounds like shes trying to DHV and neg you at the same time- shes saying my opinion matters whilst trying to reduce you as a potential AMOG and dominating he group (was it mixed btw?). As people above have said, cocky/funny should be the way to go, maybe something along the lines of "Yeah, you found out the hard way didn't you" in a jokey way with a smile, and the mean thing I might have said "It's only one of my redeeming qualities (smile)".

As you said you're not that close anyway, you can't really freeze her so she stops doing it- maybe a few subtle negs when you meet up with her again (preferably before you interact with potential HB's) e.g. I'm liking the shoes/outfit combo now, they didn't really work last week. Doesn't have to be clever, just enough for her to register that shes not getting to you.