Hi guys,

first of all i sure do hope that I didn't post this thread in wrong category. And second I'm a short on time so please help as fast as you can.


OK, so I need a game to pick up this chick that I spent summer with. We haven't seen each other for 2-3 weeks now, and now she and her sister invited me to their place (party and sleepover) for upcoming weekend (2 days and 1 night in total).

This summer we had some simple conversations, beach time and outgoings (and hugging, dance n' stuff) and nothing more (not even first base). I really dig this girl, and she ain't quite neutral about me - I read signs, and other friends confirmed them.

So even this isn't a typical pickup situation, I would greatly benefit if there could be a practical advice what to do. Should I play it cool, and how long, or should I come directly.....

THX

Sounds like playing it cool has got you nowhere yet. So I would suggest going direct. Don't do it suddenly, be the guy you are, but add subtle changes/IOIs towards her - prolonged eye contact. Then one night, work your magic and be direct.

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thank You - a lot, I was going to pull something like that

about the IOI's - what would You suggest

TIP: I'm going to play a guitar on that party, so some combination of romantic song lyrics with mentioned eye contact - is that OK ???

Kino and eye contact are the big ones. At first, be friendly in your touching - shoulder and arms, like you might do with a guy friend. And slowly start doing it more, for longer and more obviously (talk to her/ walk with her and put your arm around her hips). Say her looks good and run your hand through it. When you are looking at her eyes and mouth subtely lick your lips. The occasional compliment is good, but dont be lame about it (dont constantly give her compliments!).

Try and isolate her outside, say you want to talk or show her something (after youve spoken to her for about 10 minutes), walk arm in arm or if you pull it off around her waist. Give her a compliment about her hair, stop walking, look at her, run your hand through hair (maybe smell it and say 'god you smell so fucking good), move your hand on her hips, just above her ass. Look into her eyes, mouth, lick your lips then go for the kiss.


Thats what I would do. Have a few drinks if you need the courage. It kinda sucks, but my game is the most amazing when I am wasted.

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I totally like Your tips - will try to pull it off like that, and post report next Monday!



P.S. Could I benefit from doing something like The Cube routine?

Never tried it tbh. Bit too long winded for me. But I've never tried it, so it could work. Personally, its too corny and long.

Try the new stuff on girls you've just met, stick to the stuff that works on girls you know/want good results with.

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Go direct with a lot of confidence!You have nothing to loose!

I can only say THANK YOU guys