I've been using a lot of methods over time on my manager and things seem to be going well.

kino, flirting, txting each other.

now today a customer came into the store and she was like wow he's hot i want to give him my number, do you think that's wrong?

now i truely didn't care either way and i knew it was a shit test but i didnt know what to say and i'm like i dunno it depends on how you define "wrong"

(she also has a bf)

now she must have asked me 5 times all together if i thought she should give him the number?

any ways i could have went to pass this shit test?

any advice would be much appreciated.

that was rough... i hate when girls ask about other guys, turns me off. you could have neg'd the guy a little, then neg'd her by saying why would you wanna go out with a guy like that. playfully!! but otherwise, idk.

You have most likely already fell into the ''friends'' catagory, I would have said something like, he definitly looks like your type of boyfriend material. say it jokingly and go back to work! You are the Prize, If you have instilled any attracton on her part, I would rekindle it by letting her see you open a couple female sets and convo/kino with them. but, don't neg the guy, makes you look like you have an inferiority complex, women can pick it up quick.

This isn't a shit test dude, it means that she likes you and is either interested in your opinion (yeah, right) or is into you deep and is trying to get you to be jealous.

The line:
Her: "I want to give him my number"
PUA: "wow, I didn't know your standards were so lax. Seriously, if you are going to give your number to every guy that comes in, his wife and his dog you should make a big sign with it. Maybe print it on fliers and give them out."

Play with her, give her a hard time and a good time.

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Agreed White_Rose. This is the time to neg, BF-destroy, maybe SOI. Keep in mind too, that you don't need to jump through the HOOPS she is setting up. Spin it around, and put it back on her.

PUA: sorry sweetheart, Im not your little errands monkey - If you really need my validation we could do it together, OK? ha didnt think so.

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Why do you guys think that being insulting is going to get you anywhere? TONE IT THE FUCK DOWN.

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thanks for the replies. I don't think I'm in the friend zone quit yet, honestly.

i mean gaming at a club should be quick.

but gaming chicks at work takes longer. i mean i see them everyday or close to it. so the whole mystery method way of going about things is different.

same rules but different tactics.

i know she is attracted to me.
she has comfort with me.
it's just the location.

i need to get to a club location with her because she is a big club head.

if i don't kiss close her there than maybe I'll just drop it because it is kind of dangerous shit with a manager but oh well.

RYE - No worries, its all in a C+F way... no harshness

Though it is better to be abrasive, than a doormat

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I've encountered this a few times.

Some times overtly direct, like your example, and other times when they 'check out a guy' while I am out with them.

I take the opposite approach, I encourage it.

Ill say come on and try to take them to meet them. I have even gone up by myself once and opened the guy the girl was talking about.

I always take the approach of trying to encourage it instead of making negative comments about it. The negative approach conveys that you are interested. A positive approach conveys that you do not care.......

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now today a customer came into the store and she was like wow he's hot i want to give him my number, do you think that's wrong?

ANSWER:

" uuuu your scandelous, I like that you should be spanked go to my room"

You are in the friends zone, and you asking her what she defines as being "wrong" you are justifying why or why not she should get this guys number which still has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!



now she must have asked me 5 times all together if i thought she should give him the number?

ANSWER:
Remember you are the PRIZE. " Stop flirting with me already, if you want my number just ask me already, and since I know you cant make up your mind, you can wear your hottest skirt and I will pick the place and time"

And then lean back and smile.

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I actually agree with Rye here, though I wouldn't put it so abrasively. A lot of answers seem to be centred around 'being the prize', 'active disinterest', 'negging' etc.

Now I am not particularly familiar with Mystery's stages, but correct me if I am wrong, all of the above, if used at the wrong time, or in excess can swing the scale too far the other way, and have you coming across as arrogant. It's similar with David D's cocky/funny. A very fine line.

Your situation could be either the friend zone/she cares for your opinion/wants to make you jealous.

Rather than try to make a statement about you, or play game against one of the above scenarios, I would be inclined to just joke about it. Maybe something like:

HB: "Do you think I should give him my number?"

YOU: "Haha do you really think he'll wanna date someone who works here!"

OR

YOU: "Maybe you should offer him a job instead. At least you'll know he's interested if he takes it!"

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HB: "Do you think I should give him my number?"

YOU: "Haha do you really think he'll wanna date someone who works here!"


OMG!!!!!!!!!! If he says that he is canceling himself out! Totally DLV to himself and to her.

OR

YOU: "Maybe you should offer him a job instead. At least you'll know he's interested if he takes it!"[/quote]

And to answer your second quote I can see why you are here

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I can see why you think that; if you diss the work place, you not only diss yourself but her too.

If you both work at the same place you can only occupational DHV by telling her how amazing you are outside of work, or perhaps your ambitions etc. I think its very unrealistic to NOT diss work, everyone does it, and sometimes it can be a great DHV, especially if you both share the same motivation of doing something amazing/different. However, in this case maybe it isn't appropriate? It is for him to decide. If she is a manager who's married to the company/proud of where she is, then obviously its a NO. But then again, maybe she's not worth being with anyway haha! I'm sure the guy who wrote this can use his judgement on those two!

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I'm sorry, I've been repeating myself until my fingers are sore from telling guys that they are being insulting and not negging and Majik's post just rubbed me the wrong way at the time. There have been many posts on how to properly neg a girl (Chikito just posted one today with a subsection on how to properly neg and someone posted one on nothing but negging a few weeks ago), so there are no excuses. Guys are coming here, thinking they are hot shit and just coming out swinging and then asking what they are doing wrong without reading any of the material. You need to look into these things, otherwise you won't get anywhere, because this forum will fine-tune your game a bit, but it won't build it from scratch.

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