okay heres tha deal i was at this gurls house we're on tha bed watchin a movie with my arm around her im behind her. So im talkin 2 her a lil bit then she says "im tired im bout 2 go 2 sleep." Then i say "ur not goin 2 sleep yet." then i kiss her on tha cheek and she turns over and we start makin out. This is pretty hardcore makin out 4 a good 5 mins. then i kiss on her neck and give her a hickey. Then i try and take things farther i start goin 4 it i rub on her down there. Shes like "no i cant do that wit u." then i stop we start kissin again and i whip out she starts messin wit it while we makeout. Then i try 2 eat her out but wen i try 2 pull her shorts down she stops me. So i stop we kiss more and this goes on about 2 more times.

After awhile i give up and we start talkin im like "y u dont want 2?" and she says "i dont wanna feel like a slut cause we aren't dating."

Does ne 1 kno a good way 2 get past this?

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and also after this happened i dont kno y but i cannot get this gurl out of my freakin mind! lol i been thinkin bout her ever since and i been even thinkin bout datin her and shes decent but nothin 2 special. But i have been keepin my cool wen i talk 2 her though. I dont kno wat tha hells wrong wit me and this is my first time feelin this way bout her.

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LMR, last minute resistance.

You should've just said "Yea, you're right we shouldn't", freeze her out a bit and go back to making out and keep doing that until she lets you.
She didn't want to do it, because she thinks you won't stay after that, you have to make her think that you will and shell put out.

to kind of expand

LMR, last minute resistance.

Second thoughts

Where you messed up, was continuing to make out. AFter she says no, you stop, dont remove yourself like an asshole, just kind of slow the pace, watch tv more, something. You pulling yourself away physically will make her think "Huh...he respects me." Yet at the same time, it is leaving her wanting more, so after say a minute, start kissing her again, FROM THE START re-do everything you did before, this time extend it more, try also to be a tad more sly.

Problem: Dont ask her why not, thats string theory, you are chasing her, make HER chase YOU you already got your junk in her hand, I'd try and get her to suck on my finger, if she does, entice her "What else can that mouth do?"

thats just a few tips, someone correct me if Im wrong.

ALSO you cant get her out of your mind? Thats the sound of Oneitis. You're focusing your mind on one female. Be careful unless you can see and want a relationship.

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