how do i show a girl that i've been seeing that i love her? she says she loves me and i say it back but she doesn't believe me. i haven't had a gf in forever and i am trying to think of things i can do to not be a chump about showing her that i really do love her.

any ideas? the reason she doesn't believe me is because i have a reputation to be a player but this girl is definitely worth starting a relationship with.

hi,
ever heard of this "It's up to girls to express their love with words, and it's up to men to express their love with deeds"?

so, next time when she says she loves you don't say anything. Just embrace her and kiss her softly on her lips

I had the same problem, so I bought this little stuffed lamb. It was fucking adorable. I waited until she said she didnt believe me again, and I said "I don't love you.. Why did I get this?"

Now she sleeps with it when I'm not there to bang the shit out of her.

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round-2,
You are in the first months of seeying eachother. Your 'relationship' is based on attraction. I remember myselve saying it over and over to myselve. I'm freaking in love with this girl. When you're not. Affection + Attraction and a lot of other things, combined, is LOVE. It comes with time.
Great line! I will embody it.
Don't make it a habit to buy her your love. You can give her small presents though.
Good idea. I might copy it some day .

Riqueza.

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thanks for the advice!

i ended up taking her out to dinner and then to paint pottery afterwards. she thought it was hilarious and super gay that i would take her to paint pottery.

afterwards, when she's like "i love u but i dont know if u really love me back", i responded with "i just did the gayest, least manly-est thing i've ever done and u still don't believe me?" then she just smiled and i could tell i pressed the right button!

moral of the story... go paint pottery on ur dates! so gay but they will appreciate that ur letting ur ego/masculinity go for them!

No way, gaystuff=bad.

Riqueza.

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