Hey guys,

So last night I went to a dorm party for some friend's 21st bday. It was really cool. There was this one chick that I like a lot, we'll call her HB8.5. Last time I met her I taught her the polar bear handshake before we said goodbye, so she considered me to be quite alpha. But I didn't get her number. So this time when I saw her at this bday party, she instantly introduced me to her cute female friend, whom we'll call HB-Blond.

I was gaming HB-Blond for a while. Everything was going smoothly until this Asian dude interrupted us. I had known him before and I found him to be quite cool and easy-going because we shared the same heritage and so I thought we were cool. But he pulled her to the side and whispered something in her ears that made her go away after that. --> First cockblock of the night!

Ten to fifteen minutes later into the party, HB-Blond lost her Android phone somewhere in the party and HB8.5 was helping her to look for it. I came to their rescue and they asked me to use my phone to ring her phone to locate it. So I got HB-Blond's number by accident. HB8.5 thanked me for helping her to locate her friend's phone. I started using my game, telling her I don't do that for free, blah blah blah. She gave me a big hug, then we heard the music was pretty good so we started dancing with friends at this party. Five minutes later, we were all sweating and having a steamy time. Our body was almost intertwined, then I did a false takeaway by telling her that "I think this is a bad idea!"

Then we stopped dancing for 5-10 minutes, then after that, we got back into dancing, this time HB-Blond approached me first to dance with me. Then I parted HB-Blond to dance wtih HB8.5 and this time we really exploded. I was so close to the point of kissing her until this freaking bitch, whom we'll call HB-bitch, came along (I was actually cooking for HB-bitch and her roommates the day after). She pulled us aside and she separated me from HB8.5 and told me that she need to have a girl talk between the two of them. I'm pretty sure HB-bitch was talking shit about me because I tried to pick her up in the past but I was unsuccessful. After that I knew it was all over so I just left and went to another party at my friend's apartment in the dorm. --> Second huge cockblock of the night!!

Big questions: How should I deal with similar cockblocks in the future? Keep in mind that this is mainly college game. So I know that inner circles matter a lot, but I was gaming outer circles on this night.

Side question: Any good follow-up routine to use with HB-Blond since I got her number already?

Thanks a lot, guys!

Ask yourself, what would Daniel Craig or Gerard Butler do in a situation like this? They wouldn't in a million years allow their value to be lowered by an external cockblock. I doubt they would even view it as a cockblock and more of an oppertunity to get to the target.

My answer to your question would be to take control and say to the cockblock that your currently in the middle of the conversation and you'll get her back once you've finished. If the cockblock gets aggreviated or doesn't comply just bust her/him for interrupting and continue what you were saying. If you're alpha, you wouldn't let this happen.

AFCCoffee

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