i am sorry i am writing so dang much on this, i really want this girl, and actually not just a lay so hopefully one of you can guide me in the right direction, give me some help, and tell me what to really do!


I will start you off with information of both myself and her (of what i know)

i am 17 years old, in Colorado, born and raised in England. I'm pretty good looking without being arrogant. 5ft 8.5 120lbs (muscular from many years of Thai-Kick-Jitsu(kickboxing))

She looks like she is 20-21. on a scale of 1-10 a TWELVE(12) she really is HAF (Hot As Fuck) she is a lifeguard at my local pool

The story.

today me and my friend were in the pool just messing around on the diving board, i acknowledged her but didn't stare of course. she was sitting near to the diving board in her big chair. and me and my friend were just messing around. i got to the edge of the diving board, and asked my friend "hey what should i do" and SHE yells, "do a back flip." so i did, and she smiled and said hey, not bad.

i got into very small conversation with her, no name or anything, just talking about swimming.

later on she said "see if you can get me wet" (i internally lol'd but didn't want to seem like an arrogant prick and say something") as i was about to dive in to the pool again. so i did, and she said i got her ankles.

then she tells me she can do a flip. and i ask her to do one for me. she says "maybe later" and i go okay, i'll hold you to it.

then me and my friend go off and return later the evening for another swim. she was still working so i asked her "so are you going to do a flip for me" she says, not today but asks if i will be there tomorrow. i said probably, she tells me that if i go there tomorrow she will. and i sarcastically say "Mhhhmmm..." "i will, i swear on it. im going to be here at four" then leaves to go home.

So my questions are:
---were some of the remarks she made IOI's?
---Because of the age difference and her amazing looks to my small amount over AVG going to be a problem, if so how to deal with this?
---when i turn up tomorrow, what do i do...and i mean really, im totally lost, i can pick up girls easy, but this just is VERY tough, and im sure if i prepare i'll get it done.

and just want to add,

if you have read this THANK YOU. even if you have nothing much to say, i will really appreciate all the help
Many Thanks
John (Trixta)

I saw this on the movie "The Sandlot" jump in the deep end and act like your drowning worked for him lol

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=io4RWV681wQ[/youtube]



Ok But besides the funny video I'm really not sure how you should go about this. If you want to be able to return to the pool not sure how good it would be to go after the life gaurd and have it go sour that would make every trip to that pool that summer awkard. Me personally if I'm dealing with a working girl say at a restaurant or someplace I know i'll go back to pretty often I won't be too aggressive and try to ask for her number or blantly hit on her. You have to catch these girls outside of their work this applies the life gaurd too she is working. At least find out her name and just do what would normally if you were trying to make friends with a girl. Tease her but at the same time be kinda indifferent to her. She'll eventually open up then you can find out all sort of important information about her, like where she likes to party, what she does in her spare time, where she goes to eat lunch (then you causally show up one day)

I'm sure this isn't wasn't what you want to hear as far as seducing this girl but its different trying to pick up a working girl for the most part they have to act "nice". And you don't want to get a bad rep there she'll tell her co workers "oh thats the annoying guy who keeps hitting me"

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Oh that was funny! Thanks Reo, gave me a good chuckle! (and a good movie suggestion)

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